Maybe he thinks that you actually do care, even though you say you don't (it wouldn't be the first time a woman meant the opposite of what she said).
Maybe he just has some guilt associated with it - some old psychological pattern formed in his head where he got in the habit of lying about porn.
Or maybe he thinks it's not a good sign for a man to be watching porn solo in a relationship. So, even though you don't care, he is ashamed of it because he doesn't think it's something he should be doing.
Or, he's into some kind of freaky porn that he doesn't want you to know about.
The porn he watches is practically soft lol. I have attempted to talk to him, he says his ex wife used to freak out about it but I'm not her! Even after that conversation he still lied hence me wondering if its just normal to hide this kinda stuff, or maybe it's a generational thing. I might just be expecting too much not everyone's an over sharer like me!
haha ok. The thing is - is it normal to hide this kind of stuff? Well...yeah. Absolutely. Find me a guy that has never lied about porn; it can't be done.
So, I think it's probably just an old habit - an old pattern of behaviour that kind of stuck with him.
Maybe he just needs to hear again that you're not his ex and that he doesn't need to lie. Because it would be better all round if he wasn't lying about it, wouldn't it?
But you shouldn't worry too much either, because what he's doing is so common... almost everyone has done it.
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Maybe he thinks that you actually do care, even though you say you don't (it wouldn't be the first time a woman meant the opposite of what she said).
Maybe he just has some guilt associated with it - some old psychological pattern formed in his head where he got in the habit of lying about porn.
Or maybe he thinks it's not a good sign for a man to be watching porn solo in a relationship. So, even though you don't care, he is ashamed of it because he doesn't think it's something he should be doing.
Or, he's into some kind of freaky porn that he doesn't want you to know about.
You should ask him why.
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The porn he watches is practically soft lol. I have attempted to talk to him, he says his ex wife used to freak out about it but I'm not her! Even after that conversation he still lied hence me wondering if its just normal to hide this kinda stuff, or maybe it's a generational thing. I might just be expecting too much not everyone's an over sharer like me!
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haha ok. The thing is - is it normal to hide this kind of stuff? Well...yeah. Absolutely. Find me a guy that has never lied about porn; it can't be done.
So, I think it's probably just an old habit - an old pattern of behaviour that kind of stuck with him.
Maybe he just needs to hear again that you're not his ex and that he doesn't need to lie. Because it would be better all round if he wasn't lying about it, wouldn't it?
But you shouldn't worry too much either, because what he's doing is so common... almost everyone has done it.
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It would ^^, thanks for the response this has been genuinely and surprisingly helpful! :)
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That's ok, no probs :)