That's super ruDE on his part no matter what most of the other MEN here think. First off your sleeping, he's not even looking at you. He's using you as a hole while he has fantasies about doing one of the port chicks. That's not loving. You have EVERY RIGHT TO BE ANGRY! YOU shouldn't have to dance around the subject or be afraid to anger him. It's YOU who should be angry! If my husband did that under the same circumstances I would be furious. That shows a HUGE lack of respect for you. I don't care what the "kids" are saying about it on this site., as a ADULT that shows a tremendous amount of disrespect towards you as a person! You are much more than a hole..!! You are a person, and should NOT be USED like that!! Personally I DO consider it a big deal for the simple reason he was using you as a hole while he had thoughts of being with someone else having not one shred of consideration for YOU!! NOT caring if you were even awake!! Sounds like you two need to have a serious conversation. Also you did NOTHING WRONG by looking at his phone to see what he was doing with it while he's supposed to be making "love" to you. !!! Honestly, that's absolutely unacceptable and awfully selfish and self serving on his part!! I would be very very angry and hurt even if I were you. I would say, in your situation, NO that's definitely NOT normal!! It's like he wanted you to stay asleep so he didn't have to "deal" with you as a person while he did his thing! Your needs should haven been considered! THAT'S NOT ACCEPTABLE!
Thanks! That's how I see it too! I mean I'm not angry at him for it just kind of disappointed I guess! He's a great man. We have like the perfect relationship! Very sexually active! We're best friends! But I guess something must have gone wrong somewhere along the lines and I didn't notice until now!
Is it normal for my husband to have sex with me while watching porn?
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That's super ruDE on his part no matter what most of the other MEN here think. First off your sleeping, he's not even looking at you. He's using you as a hole while he has fantasies about doing one of the port chicks. That's not loving. You have EVERY RIGHT TO BE ANGRY! YOU shouldn't have to dance around the subject or be afraid to anger him. It's YOU who should be angry! If my husband did that under the same circumstances I would be furious. That shows a HUGE lack of respect for you. I don't care what the "kids" are saying about it on this site., as a ADULT that shows a tremendous amount of disrespect towards you as a person! You are much more than a hole..!! You are a person, and should NOT be USED like that!! Personally I DO consider it a big deal for the simple reason he was using you as a hole while he had thoughts of being with someone else having not one shred of consideration for YOU!! NOT caring if you were even awake!! Sounds like you two need to have a serious conversation. Also you did NOTHING WRONG by looking at his phone to see what he was doing with it while he's supposed to be making "love" to you. !!! Honestly, that's absolutely unacceptable and awfully selfish and self serving on his part!! I would be very very angry and hurt even if I were you. I would say, in your situation, NO that's definitely NOT normal!! It's like he wanted you to stay asleep so he didn't have to "deal" with you as a person while he did his thing! Your needs should haven been considered! THAT'S NOT ACCEPTABLE!
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Thanks! That's how I see it too! I mean I'm not angry at him for it just kind of disappointed I guess! He's a great man. We have like the perfect relationship! Very sexually active! We're best friends! But I guess something must have gone wrong somewhere along the lines and I didn't notice until now!