is it normal for my husband to dress up

thanks for your comment im greatful for any feed back i do worry about what his next steps are with this as at first it was just high heels and stockings now its the whole thing as i said clothes make up wig everything i dont even think he cares what i wear it seems his just getting off on what he looks like and just lately his got me filmimg him on his phone so he can watch it back i wont let him film me as i dont like to be filmed but he loves it we have different ways of being 'turned on' as this all came out when we decided to tell each other what we liked sexually and i told him i like rough sex he dont have a clue we said we would do things we both liked im still waiting and when his dressed as a woman he says how he looks better than me im confused and if i start to say anything negative about this he gets in a moods (like a woman) and he argues with me i just dont know what to do as i feel now that our relationship has been fake he isnt the man i thought i knew dont get me wrong i wouldnt leave him but all this is starting to be a strain i used to have a high sex drive but thats fading