As someone with a lot in common with the guy described, I just want to say this made me feel like crap. Particularly, "I'd question whether said friend is good to even continue hanging out with." Well, at least I know now why I don't have any friends anymore...
No need to be offended even though I can completely see why you would be given what I typed. I'm sorry my post was offensive however I still can see those kinds of behavior being annoying to someone who isn't a boyfriend. If you're hurt easily on things that are actually insults then I can very well see being upset about that. If the topic creator is the one wrongly offending her friend then that is wrong too. But if someone is getting hurt about tiny things that aren't meant to be insults then I could see that as a problem.
Asking someone if they'd simply like to hang out and chat isn't a problem and asking someone "How does that make you feel?" isn't particularly bad if it was a rare question but a lot could be annoying. I'm not a bad guy, I'm actually quite nice so again, sorry if my post offended you. Acting this way too much could still be annoying to some so yes, I could see it being a problem to others. If you are simply a nice guy who likes conversation then I wouldn't worry too much. Showing off how macho one is and acting tough is overrated anyway.
Is it normal for my guy friend to be such a girl?
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As someone with a lot in common with the guy described, I just want to say this made me feel like crap. Particularly, "I'd question whether said friend is good to even continue hanging out with." Well, at least I know now why I don't have any friends anymore...
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No need to be offended even though I can completely see why you would be given what I typed. I'm sorry my post was offensive however I still can see those kinds of behavior being annoying to someone who isn't a boyfriend. If you're hurt easily on things that are actually insults then I can very well see being upset about that. If the topic creator is the one wrongly offending her friend then that is wrong too. But if someone is getting hurt about tiny things that aren't meant to be insults then I could see that as a problem.
Asking someone if they'd simply like to hang out and chat isn't a problem and asking someone "How does that make you feel?" isn't particularly bad if it was a rare question but a lot could be annoying. I'm not a bad guy, I'm actually quite nice so again, sorry if my post offended you. Acting this way too much could still be annoying to some so yes, I could see it being a problem to others. If you are simply a nice guy who likes conversation then I wouldn't worry too much. Showing off how macho one is and acting tough is overrated anyway.