I've actually been just like your girlfriend. It might not be the same for her, but I had only been with my first boyfriend when we were going out and after we started hooking up i started to wonder about how other boys were so one day i went to a party and got smashed and hooked up. I never really felt bad about it i didn't even tell him. Then i started doing it more and more i even got so slutty i would cheat on him right in the middle of the party. well one day he asks me if i only love him and he catches me hesitating to answer so i told him i cheated on him. he was my best friend and we'd been going out for almost as long as you have and i liked sex and stuff with him, but i didn't get the same rush.
I broke his heart and he forgave me but i ended up cheating again and he saw a picture on myspace. he broke up with me and i cryed seeing him crying but never really felt bad.
but now i think about him every day. the thing you have to realize is that hooking up with someone new is always fun and exciting, but sacrificing love for that excitement makes you a whore. i was a huge whore for what i did. being in anyone else's arms or feeling another person's lips just isn't the same as with him. i know it sounds corny but he was my soul mate. he broke up with me 4 years ago and i can not go a single day without thinking of the biggest mistake i've ever made. i know i will love him forever, and you only get that kind of love once in a lifetime.
if i could go back i would never leave him. i would marry him, because after losing someone you'll love forever, especially to some slutty hook ups, it feels like you're missing a part of yourself.
hope this helped and i hope your girlfriend realizes that she has in fact been a complete slut and a terrible person just as i was. if she doesn't realize, at least take comfort that she will never be happy without her true love even if she deludes herself into thinking she is.
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I've actually been just like your girlfriend. It might not be the same for her, but I had only been with my first boyfriend when we were going out and after we started hooking up i started to wonder about how other boys were so one day i went to a party and got smashed and hooked up. I never really felt bad about it i didn't even tell him. Then i started doing it more and more i even got so slutty i would cheat on him right in the middle of the party. well one day he asks me if i only love him and he catches me hesitating to answer so i told him i cheated on him. he was my best friend and we'd been going out for almost as long as you have and i liked sex and stuff with him, but i didn't get the same rush.
I broke his heart and he forgave me but i ended up cheating again and he saw a picture on myspace. he broke up with me and i cryed seeing him crying but never really felt bad.
but now i think about him every day. the thing you have to realize is that hooking up with someone new is always fun and exciting, but sacrificing love for that excitement makes you a whore. i was a huge whore for what i did. being in anyone else's arms or feeling another person's lips just isn't the same as with him. i know it sounds corny but he was my soul mate. he broke up with me 4 years ago and i can not go a single day without thinking of the biggest mistake i've ever made. i know i will love him forever, and you only get that kind of love once in a lifetime.
if i could go back i would never leave him. i would marry him, because after losing someone you'll love forever, especially to some slutty hook ups, it feels like you're missing a part of yourself.
hope this helped and i hope your girlfriend realizes that she has in fact been a complete slut and a terrible person just as i was. if she doesn't realize, at least take comfort that she will never be happy without her true love even if she deludes herself into thinking she is.