Is it normal for my girlfriend to lose her sex drive.

I don't know what's going on but it seems that my girlfriend has lost her sex drive a bit. We have incredible sex but lately she has seemed to just not be in the mood. I brought it to her attention and she told me she has just been tired. That would make sense if our schedule has changed but it hasn't and we never had this issue. I'm just wondering is this normal or is there anything I can do or say to get her more excited about sex?

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Based on 200 votes (142 yes)
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Comments ( 23 )
  • snowyd

    Give her a break, maybe she feels your relationship is too focussed on the physical.

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  • UnrecognizableMan

    Its normal. This is why relationships based on sex never last. I hope there is more to your relationship.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    Maybe she really is just tired.

    I would say the worst thing you can do is nag her about it because... that may just add to whatever is bothering her.

    Sometimes a slump is nothing more than a slump
    until someone turns it into an issue

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  • Shy-Ann

    If she's on anti-depressants, that can lower her sex drive also, there could be lots of reasons

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  • RamboJesus

    Fact: The majority of people in the world are lactose intolerant. So yeah its definitely normal to dislike/not drink milk.

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  • ccjigsaw

    It's common that at the begginning of a relationship you'd have lots of sex, then it slows down. It can be a fear for women (I am 1) that their relationship is just about sex. Best thing you can do here, don't push sex on her, show her you love her by doin glittle things like making dinner or hugging her, if she starts to feel relaxed, it should pick up again. But honestly if you push ans keep asking why and such, you might loose her

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  • snowyd

    Or she could be on her period. Either one

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    • BurnaBaby27

      Or if she's really tired, she could be pregnant. Hmm..

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  • LightningTechnician

    It's pretty common, but if it lasts a very long time I suggest you dump her, because it's just not worth it. I'm guessing she is tired of you.

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  • DannyKanes

    Or she could be on a birth control pill

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  • --ash--

    She trying to let you down lightly, your a Dud & she's found the dude at work gives what she needs

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  • Terence_the_viking

    You have incredible sex according to you but women do tend to fake to make you feel better. I don't think shes lost her sex drive i think you don't satisfy her.

    Maybe she is tired because she is banging her boss at work

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  • Canada48

    Totally normal, but usually happens right after they say " I Do"

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  • Brynsas

    She really needs to have her health checked. After my wife had a baby she lost her sex drive. 10 years later, it spontaneously return. We where at the point of divorce before it happened. We realized that these events coincided with start and ending of taking antidepressants. She needs to speak with her doctor and GYN to make sure nothing is wrong for her sake.

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  • ishitpandas

    Yes it is totally normal

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  • RAPE. its ok shes your girlfriend.

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  • Forest~*~Fairy~*~Nymph

    I've been in this situation before. I've been in a few relationships with guys and just randomly i start to lose my sex drive. It can be due to many reasons. Stress, depression, boredom, not exersizing enough and birth control also can damage your sex drive. Go on a jog with your gf or take a workout class together, it will be a fun activity for you two to do together and all the sweatiness and pumped up adrenaline might turn her on!

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  • Jukebox13

    People are really harsh on here :/ sorry about that. But my best guess could be if she's on birth control?? I remember first looking into birth control and a less common side effect was lost in sex drive, and I was thinking what's the point of birth control if it makes you loose your sex drive?!

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  • mark777

    Why don't you feel attracted to me ? why why why ?

    sounds like wha wha wha.

    mabey that's the reason.

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  • Technoz

    Is "girlfriend" a euphemism for your hand?

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  • TREX

    Maybe u don't have sex with her regularly so she lost the motion to have sex

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  • UnrecognizableMan

    Its normal. This is why relationships purely based on sex don't last. Hopefully there is more to your relationship.

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  • bookmaniac

    maybe you have a small dick?

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