Yes, it's normal. Reason being- 1) She doesn't consciously control what arouses her. 2) We don't know when this fantasy became arousing to her. 3) We don't know, and never will know *why* she is aroused by seeing you dress as a school boy.
I could write novels of guesses. Perhaps she only recently started discovering this type of role-play and enjoys it because she gets to be the one in "control" and sees herself as more dominant. A teacher has "power" of the students. I know as an educator it's my responsibility to "control" the room of students I teach. She likes to fantasize about being your teacher. That doesn't mean she wants to have sex with students. A typical person can decipher the difference between fantasy and reality. This is just a fantasy. Or just think of this way- what if we analyzed every other kinky type of role play the way you're viewing her fantasy. Some people enjoy being spanked by their "daddy". But we understand that it's not real. They don't really want to give their father a call and ask them to spank them for arousal. That would be weird... lol. But my point is, perhaps she likes the "control" of the role-play.
Maybe she had this fantasy long before she was a teacher. It just so happens that she wanted to be a teacher in her reality. Assuming she's not secretly a serial killer, she's most likely got her head on straight. But you two definitely need to talk more about it. You, as her partner, need to be open-minded to listening and trying it. But if you're still not comfortable doing it, you have to be honest with her and tell her you just can't do that for her. Which, personally, I'd find a little upsetting. I mean, you have to understand, as a human sexuality educator, I've heard of a thousand kinkier things. Some that actually *are* quite dangerous. This is just a costume and some role-play. If you let go of this thought that she's up to something else as a teacher, you might really start to find the erotic fun in what she's suggesting. I'm not attracted to women, but I personally think it sounds kind of hot, to be honest. Anyways, definitely talk to her if she still wants to try it.
Is it normal for my girlfriend to be turned on by this?
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I'm a human sexuality educator.
Yes, it's normal. Reason being- 1) She doesn't consciously control what arouses her. 2) We don't know when this fantasy became arousing to her. 3) We don't know, and never will know *why* she is aroused by seeing you dress as a school boy.
I could write novels of guesses. Perhaps she only recently started discovering this type of role-play and enjoys it because she gets to be the one in "control" and sees herself as more dominant. A teacher has "power" of the students. I know as an educator it's my responsibility to "control" the room of students I teach. She likes to fantasize about being your teacher. That doesn't mean she wants to have sex with students. A typical person can decipher the difference between fantasy and reality. This is just a fantasy. Or just think of this way- what if we analyzed every other kinky type of role play the way you're viewing her fantasy. Some people enjoy being spanked by their "daddy". But we understand that it's not real. They don't really want to give their father a call and ask them to spank them for arousal. That would be weird... lol. But my point is, perhaps she likes the "control" of the role-play.
Maybe she had this fantasy long before she was a teacher. It just so happens that she wanted to be a teacher in her reality. Assuming she's not secretly a serial killer, she's most likely got her head on straight. But you two definitely need to talk more about it. You, as her partner, need to be open-minded to listening and trying it. But if you're still not comfortable doing it, you have to be honest with her and tell her you just can't do that for her. Which, personally, I'd find a little upsetting. I mean, you have to understand, as a human sexuality educator, I've heard of a thousand kinkier things. Some that actually *are* quite dangerous. This is just a costume and some role-play. If you let go of this thought that she's up to something else as a teacher, you might really start to find the erotic fun in what she's suggesting. I'm not attracted to women, but I personally think it sounds kind of hot, to be honest. Anyways, definitely talk to her if she still wants to try it.
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Hmm.. They're not reasons why it's normal, they're reasons why we can't be certain how normal it is :)
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Well, ask yourself, what *is* normal?