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Im in love with this dude and my friend knows it. me my friend and my crush all hung out and my friend asked my crush to slow dance. She even gave me the evil eye and he said yes they totally ignored me the rest of the night. To make it worst they left without me to have sex and i had to walk a mile to my house. I still see my crush every now and then but he dosent say hi or even look at me. What do i do i still love him
She is not your friend anymore; not unless she comes to you with the sincerest apology and a week's worth of grovelling.
As for the guy: He goes for girls that give it up that fast? Sounds normal for a teenager seething with hormones.
If you think he's worth it, you could always wait for him to grow tired of your friend, which he will one day. Carry on with your own life as if their pairing never had an impact on you (if you don't, you'll look like a fool).
Always flatter him about things you know that she doesn't even notice about him. Make sure you keep it casual - you don't want him to think you're making a pass at him. For example, you could start off by saying something like: "You're such a great guy, it's no wonder my friend is into you...." Say it like you are surprised he's so terrific. You want him to know that you hold him in high esteem, but not that you are available to him. You don't want to be his "friend", but you do want him to feel good about himself in your presence.
When he dumps your friend, he will remember how awesome you made him feel and may consider you in the future.
Unless you think they're going to get married,and in that case, don't even bother.
thats not a friend. that is a demonic bitch sent from the depths of hell signed by Lucifer and Hitler themselves. and the guy? just another dumbass casualty of the ever lasting war of love. forget him and move on. a wise man once said, "if at first you dont succeed, try, try again, then give up. no sense in being a damned fool about it"
1. You need a friendship circle spring cleaning. Your friend is worthless. UNLESS you two agreed to fight for Stupid Guy prior The Dance.
2. Stupid Guy is Stupid Guy. His mind probably got poisoned by her insidious comments about you behind your back. Or, he's just a jerk.
3. Move on. He's not the only guy with an attractive smile, "great" personality (or so love makes you see), and etc. Always keep in mind that there are thousands/millions more guys in this world who could make you happier.
4. Get a puppy. <3