I think first, you and your other friends should be honest and tell her the issue you guys have with her.
Second you should stop inviting her to hang out, and if she self-invites or proposes a plan herself, you guys tell her you know she will not make it so she should not waste her energy and yours. But be tough about this.
Then, she will know how she looks in your minds and she will want to change that and prove you wrong.
What you can also do, in case she finally convinces you to join the plan, is tell her a fake hour. Like 6 for example, although the rest of you are meeting at 7. At 6 you call her and say "are you there yet?" If she is not coming, you tell her the truth: "Well, we told you a fake time since we knew you would not make it anyway, so if you want to come we are actually meeting at 7." And if she actually makes it, you act all surprised and tell her the truth, you actually told her a different time so she can see how you guys always have to wait for her. I hope this helps!!
Is it normal for my friend to never want to hang out with anyone?
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I think first, you and your other friends should be honest and tell her the issue you guys have with her.
Second you should stop inviting her to hang out, and if she self-invites or proposes a plan herself, you guys tell her you know she will not make it so she should not waste her energy and yours. But be tough about this.
Then, she will know how she looks in your minds and she will want to change that and prove you wrong.
What you can also do, in case she finally convinces you to join the plan, is tell her a fake hour. Like 6 for example, although the rest of you are meeting at 7. At 6 you call her and say "are you there yet?" If she is not coming, you tell her the truth: "Well, we told you a fake time since we knew you would not make it anyway, so if you want to come we are actually meeting at 7." And if she actually makes it, you act all surprised and tell her the truth, you actually told her a different time so she can see how you guys always have to wait for her. I hope this helps!!