I'm sorry for the confusion, it's hard to give advice on this because it can be difficult to discern between whats innocent and what's not.
I was thinking earlier about how some of the issues you described could be misinterpreted. Like the coffee could've been cold because he brought it and tried to wake you but you didn't wake so he left and came back later, which means he might've not been waiting and therefore if he just came and went quickly he might not have even noticed your top.
But what you said about it being unusual behavior for him to do that does raise questions.
I know I'm confusing you more and I appologize for it. I'm just trying to make sure you stay alert but also don't let innocent behavior affect your relationship with your dad.
Like I said it's difficult to discern, just keep a look out and if he does something you deem inappropriate, if your not sure it was meant to b that way, simply say you don't like it and ask him to stop, hopefully it won't escalate past that.
i know, I know, i'm sorry, I'm sorry. if I made you feel bad. It isn't your help that's a problem. I came to the same point you made about him being turned on by seeing me naked because after my bath last night, I sat on his lap watching TV dressed in just a towel and cuddled up to him but I had to move after just a couple of minutes because I could feel him getting physically aroused.
I've done that same thing in the recent past and it hasn't turned him on like that before. so clearly the hallway thing with my towel has effected the way he sees me.
Like you said, I will try to not do get too paranoid or distant. I sent a message out to him be asking for a lock on my bedroom door. I he did grope my breasts the other morning, and lets face it, I wouldn't have mentioned if if I thought he hadn't, at least with a lock he wont be tempted to do it again.
IIN For my dad to keep mentioning my towel slip
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I'm sorry for the confusion, it's hard to give advice on this because it can be difficult to discern between whats innocent and what's not.
I was thinking earlier about how some of the issues you described could be misinterpreted. Like the coffee could've been cold because he brought it and tried to wake you but you didn't wake so he left and came back later, which means he might've not been waiting and therefore if he just came and went quickly he might not have even noticed your top.
But what you said about it being unusual behavior for him to do that does raise questions.
I know I'm confusing you more and I appologize for it. I'm just trying to make sure you stay alert but also don't let innocent behavior affect your relationship with your dad.
Like I said it's difficult to discern, just keep a look out and if he does something you deem inappropriate, if your not sure it was meant to b that way, simply say you don't like it and ask him to stop, hopefully it won't escalate past that.
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i know, I know, i'm sorry, I'm sorry. if I made you feel bad. It isn't your help that's a problem. I came to the same point you made about him being turned on by seeing me naked because after my bath last night, I sat on his lap watching TV dressed in just a towel and cuddled up to him but I had to move after just a couple of minutes because I could feel him getting physically aroused.
I've done that same thing in the recent past and it hasn't turned him on like that before. so clearly the hallway thing with my towel has effected the way he sees me.
Like you said, I will try to not do get too paranoid or distant. I sent a message out to him be asking for a lock on my bedroom door. I he did grope my breasts the other morning, and lets face it, I wouldn't have mentioned if if I thought he hadn't, at least with a lock he wont be tempted to do it again.
I just want my old Daddy back.