Is it normal for my boyfriend to try to make me think hes cheating?

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ok i love my bf but sometimes he drives me crazy, he regulary tries to make me think he's cheating on me just because he likes it when i get jelious. He says he just likes bringing out the passion in me. but i am passionet otherwise, i always tell him i love him, and hug him, and kiss him, and let him know how much he means to me. by romantic dinners and special bedroom things. is this normal?

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  • BrightEyes
    14 years ago

    No, it is not. He's being an asshole and you should tell him that. Don't waste time on someone who wants manufactured, instigated passion and is uninterested in the real thing.

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  • BoredGuy
    13 years ago

    someone advices him that women don't wanna feel their man as a sure thing

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  • ladyday
    13 years ago

    that's pretty sick that he likes to see you mad. I think you should end it! he sounds like a weirdo.

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  • jsyk
    13 years ago

    our relationship aside from this little fouble is fantastic, i know he's not actually cheating, he's just not the type, he is actually a virgin, we are waiting til we get married. he just likes to bring out the passion and jeliousy, idk

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Well slow down people and let me tell you a little story. Me and my gf were going through hard times realationship wise. It seemed that she had stopped caring. So my friend noticed this one day (female friend). So the next day my friend hugged me and made it look like she was trying to kiss me as soon as my gf walked in the room. Saved Everything. My gf came up slapped her and took her place:). I broke up with her 1 week later but that's beside the point.

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  • misschelseaxo
    13 years ago

    something tells me that if he can get descriptive he may have something going on for real on the side. and is actually messing with your head. the easiest way to hide something is in plain sight.

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  • jsyk
    14 years ago

    well what he does is get totaly serious and say yeah im having these two girls over and were gonna fuck like crazy, one can ride me while the other one sits on my face... he gets very discriptive. or he'll say that he took the receptionist at work and did her ion the bathroom, just cause he loves it when i get jelious

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    • jsyk
      14 years ago

      ... and if i dont get upset cause im getting use to him doing this and i know he's joking then he gets mad

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  • ThinkPad
    14 years ago

    Make you think he's cheating how? I do this with light hearted jokes sometimes

    i.e.

    gf "who was that on the phone?"
    me "my other girlfriend, she says hi"

    If he's doing things like this, then I think it's fine and you might be over reacting a bit but he should still be sensitive to your feelings. If he's like planting women's underwear in his bedroom, then this is stupid and he needs to stop.

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  • mtnw
    14 years ago

    it's manipulative. tell him to stop.

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