Is it normal for my boyfriend to look at porn a lot?

I have caught my boyfriend looking at porn a few times and now its really getting me down. I'm a good looking girl and the better looking out of the two of us but its making me feel horrible or that I'm not good enough we have sex pretty much everyday so what's his problem he says its not me and that he's more than happy and just looks it it cos he's bored when me or his friends are not there so why does he have to look at it a lot especially when I've been in the other room once. When ever I'm not at home all I think about is him doing that and its getting to me especially that im pregnant and feel ugly. We've been together for 3 and a half years. He said he will try and stop looking at it because he can tell its really upsetting me. What should I do?? By the way I understand all men look at it but not ax much as he does if there in a relationship and already has sex a lot and good sex at that. So do u think I'm over reacting? Is this normal? Or should i be worried?

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  • Start looking at porn too

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  • Hi lol

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  • I agree with Gelmurag, its a hard habit to break for some people. It shouldn't be a problem though, only when they prefer sex on their own to being with you....then it's a problem.

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  • Porn is similar to facebook in terms of addiction. Sometimes you sit at the computer, and while checking e-mail check porn. It becomes a habit. I know a lot of girls don't like it, especially when their boyfriend/fiancee/husband does it. For the most part I agree, if I'm with a girl I should spend my time looking at her. There are a few situations where it can be acceptable...as in "I'm to tired" "I have a headache" "Not tonight" or when it comes to something that she refuses/ cannot do herself. Furry anal lolicon for example. Unless she can dress like a 12 year old in a cat suit that likes anal toys...

    You said its regular between you two, and you never said you found him watching anything "odd", so my guess is the first suggestion. Habit. Habits are very hard to break. It will take as much understanding, and support as you can muster. Imagine if someone took away your social media? You'd be tempted to head back a few times a day. Try to look at it like that for him.

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