I don't believe in allowing other people to use me, nor do I believe in being used. Even if a enjoy certain sexual practices I'm not going to give anything that I don't get. I don't even want to know the name of a guy who can't satisfy me.
I think you're really digging there. There's no logical reason for me to ever give anyone oral sex who isn't willing to give it to me.
I would rather have a man who is completely incapable of penetrative sex, but orally gifted than someone who doesn't not enjoy giving oral sex. The oral sex thing is a dealbreaker for me!
I honestly think giving to a selfish person who is unwilling to give is a complete waste of time.
"There's no logical reason for me to ever give anyone oral sex who isn't willing to give it to me."
There is if you enjoy giving oral sex. I'm guessing you don't, and have a hard time imagining that anyone does. But such people do exist.
I can't enjoy giving without recieving, because I find giving without recieving to be insulting, and degrading. It's about respect! If there is no respect I have no desire. A lack of reciprocation is something I find deeply disrespectful, and an absolute turn off.
Maybe this will help you understand, I enjoy talking on the telephone with people a like, but if the phone rings, and it's someone I don't care for I'm not going to enjoy talking to them on the phone, in fact I probably won't even bother to answer the phone.
Physical intimacy, affection, and romance are entirely conditional to me. If I love someone, I will enjoy being intimate with that person, but I cannot love someone who expects to receive from me without giving. I only enjoy intimacy with an equal partner. There are plenty of people who enjoy oral sex, this is true, but I cannot enjoy it if it isn't reciprocated. I am not a submissive, or docile person. I wouldn't want to date a person who wasn't interested in pleasing me, because I could NEVER love such a person.
Maybe you don't understand, or appreciate the idea of equality, or reciprocity? If someone doesn't care about my pleasure he's certainly not worthy of my time, energy, emotion, or physical intimacy.
Is it normal for my boyfriend to like me finger and eat his ass?
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I don't believe in allowing other people to use me, nor do I believe in being used. Even if a enjoy certain sexual practices I'm not going to give anything that I don't get. I don't even want to know the name of a guy who can't satisfy me.
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It rather sounds like the expression, "cutting off your nose to spite your face".
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I think you're really digging there. There's no logical reason for me to ever give anyone oral sex who isn't willing to give it to me.
I would rather have a man who is completely incapable of penetrative sex, but orally gifted than someone who doesn't not enjoy giving oral sex. The oral sex thing is a dealbreaker for me!
I honestly think giving to a selfish person who is unwilling to give is a complete waste of time.
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"There's no logical reason for me to ever give anyone oral sex who isn't willing to give it to me."
There is if you enjoy giving oral sex. I'm guessing you don't, and have a hard time imagining that anyone does. But such people do exist.
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I can't enjoy giving without recieving, because I find giving without recieving to be insulting, and degrading. It's about respect! If there is no respect I have no desire. A lack of reciprocation is something I find deeply disrespectful, and an absolute turn off.
Maybe this will help you understand, I enjoy talking on the telephone with people a like, but if the phone rings, and it's someone I don't care for I'm not going to enjoy talking to them on the phone, in fact I probably won't even bother to answer the phone.
Physical intimacy, affection, and romance are entirely conditional to me. If I love someone, I will enjoy being intimate with that person, but I cannot love someone who expects to receive from me without giving. I only enjoy intimacy with an equal partner. There are plenty of people who enjoy oral sex, this is true, but I cannot enjoy it if it isn't reciprocated. I am not a submissive, or docile person. I wouldn't want to date a person who wasn't interested in pleasing me, because I could NEVER love such a person.
Maybe you don't understand, or appreciate the idea of equality, or reciprocity? If someone doesn't care about my pleasure he's certainly not worthy of my time, energy, emotion, or physical intimacy.