Saint is correct and you really need to see a doctor because you've either got nerve damage or necrotic tissue that could cause a blood clot that can end you.
I'd break up with him and consider criminal charges because this isn't normal. This is abuse. BDSM is all about comfort for your partner and the safe word is to be treated as law. That's the difference between BDSM and abuse.
Update when you get a word. I'm sorry you got with that dick but you're still alive and you're probably not doing too bad, health wise, if you're catching it early. Consider a civil suit if this ends up costing you because you do not need to be in debt for his crime...
Thankfully its minor nerve damage. Should be re-healed in up to 3 months. No surgery needed (unless it becomes infected). Really all I can do is wait, and not walk on it as much as possible.
As for the (ex) bf, his ass is getting dumped as soon as I can tell it to his face. I don't really think any legal action is necessary quite yet :)
You can't change the past! I tend to not want to RUSH to the doctors either. Could probably have done more fun things with your day so I think you need to make that boyfriend an Ex.
IIN for my Boyfriend to do this to me?
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Im going on 3 days. It feels like im walking on nothing...
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Saint is correct and you really need to see a doctor because you've either got nerve damage or necrotic tissue that could cause a blood clot that can end you.
I'd break up with him and consider criminal charges because this isn't normal. This is abuse. BDSM is all about comfort for your partner and the safe word is to be treated as law. That's the difference between BDSM and abuse.
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There's only one upside to this whole thing. I can now comfortable shove my whole foot up his ass...
My friend is coming to get me so I dont have to walk all the way there (which was my first plan)
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Update when you get a word. I'm sorry you got with that dick but you're still alive and you're probably not doing too bad, health wise, if you're catching it early. Consider a civil suit if this ends up costing you because you do not need to be in debt for his crime...
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Thankfully its minor nerve damage. Should be re-healed in up to 3 months. No surgery needed (unless it becomes infected). Really all I can do is wait, and not walk on it as much as possible.
As for the (ex) bf, his ass is getting dumped as soon as I can tell it to his face. I don't really think any legal action is necessary quite yet :)
Holy shit dude, go see a doctor NOW. Blood should have rushed back to your feet within a few minutes if everything had been all right ... :/
As Neptunian said, what he has done to you is not kinky BDSM- it is abuse.
I love pain and humiliation myself but you can tell that my playmates have cared for me because they take my health into account.
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Ive been waiting in The ER for a bit now... I highly doubt it will be good but it's all good now
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Good call! You are in the right place at least.
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Yea, I feel stupid for not going sooner :(
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You can't change the past! I tend to not want to RUSH to the doctors either. Could probably have done more fun things with your day so I think you need to make that boyfriend an Ex.