First of all: Some dominance is nice, but all good Dom's should put the safety of the Sub first. He should not tie you up in a way that causes your limbs to numb.
Always have a safe-word if you are with someone who cannot see or feel that the line is about to be crossed. Do not play these games with people who cannot put your safety first.
Saint is correct and you really need to see a doctor because you've either got nerve damage or necrotic tissue that could cause a blood clot that can end you.
I'd break up with him and consider criminal charges because this isn't normal. This is abuse. BDSM is all about comfort for your partner and the safe word is to be treated as law. That's the difference between BDSM and abuse.
Update when you get a word. I'm sorry you got with that dick but you're still alive and you're probably not doing too bad, health wise, if you're catching it early. Consider a civil suit if this ends up costing you because you do not need to be in debt for his crime...
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First of all: Some dominance is nice, but all good Dom's should put the safety of the Sub first. He should not tie you up in a way that causes your limbs to numb.
Always have a safe-word if you are with someone who cannot see or feel that the line is about to be crossed. Do not play these games with people who cannot put your safety first.
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But in this case, having a safe word or signal would do me no good since i told him something was wrong and he ignored it
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Exactly. He is not a good Dominant and I would even go as far as calling it abuse.
Is your foot still asleep? how long has it been?
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Im going on 3 days. It feels like im walking on nothing...
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Saint is correct and you really need to see a doctor because you've either got nerve damage or necrotic tissue that could cause a blood clot that can end you.
I'd break up with him and consider criminal charges because this isn't normal. This is abuse. BDSM is all about comfort for your partner and the safe word is to be treated as law. That's the difference between BDSM and abuse.
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There's only one upside to this whole thing. I can now comfortable shove my whole foot up his ass...
My friend is coming to get me so I dont have to walk all the way there (which was my first plan)
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Update when you get a word. I'm sorry you got with that dick but you're still alive and you're probably not doing too bad, health wise, if you're catching it early. Consider a civil suit if this ends up costing you because you do not need to be in debt for his crime...
Holy shit dude, go see a doctor NOW. Blood should have rushed back to your feet within a few minutes if everything had been all right ... :/
As Neptunian said, what he has done to you is not kinky BDSM- it is abuse.
I love pain and humiliation myself but you can tell that my playmates have cared for me because they take my health into account.
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Ive been waiting in The ER for a bit now... I highly doubt it will be good but it's all good now
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Good call! You are in the right place at least.