IIN for my boyfriend to cry if we do anything more than kissing?

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  • dom180
    11 years ago | pl

    It definitely isn't you. No amount of bad breath or ugliness would make a guy actually break down and cry; I'm sure you are neither.

    This is actually really sad. Keep trying to get him to talk about it, but don't be too forceful. It seems like he has some serious issues. If his family are approachable, you could try asking them for some help, maybe ask if he has any sort of history that could leave him feeling like that. I'm betting there is a reason why he is like that which he is hiding and needs to be confronted. I'm not sure how appropriate that advice is in your scenario, but it can't hurt to try.

    You are not a bad person, you are not disgusting. You are a good person because you are trying to help him; he is just confused. If all this fails, you might have to leave him. It isn't fair on you to be with him if you are unhappy, but this should be a last resort. Try to help him first.

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    • InsanityArtist98
      11 years ago | pl

      Alright i'll keep trying. Thank you so much for that, I didn't even think to ask his family but I will.

      That's true too, but i'm not going to leave though until I atleast can get him some help.

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