Give him the benefit of the doubt and talk to him first. Make him aware of how he is acting and tell him how it makes u feel. Tell him u don't feel there is any trust between u when he acts this way - tell him to mild down his attitude extremely - otherwise ur leaving. If it hasn't changed, and stays changed, then yea leave. My partner was the same for six months, after one night when I lost it and actually threw a pool cue at him and told him to stick it somewhere painful - he realized how upset I was. He said it was because of who I work with and my job. He felt insecure because he wasn't as big as those guys and felt small compared to them. He felt that if they wanted to steal me from him - they easily could. I had to remind him that it was me who chased him at the beginning and told him all the reasons I loved him. He joined a gym and started working out too - so not only is he buff now but has little frustration because instead of voice-ing his silly thoughts (that he regrets later) he puts his mind on his gym work out. M xx (Sorry it's so detailed!)
Is it normal for my boyfriend to be this paranoid?
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Give him the benefit of the doubt and talk to him first. Make him aware of how he is acting and tell him how it makes u feel. Tell him u don't feel there is any trust between u when he acts this way - tell him to mild down his attitude extremely - otherwise ur leaving. If it hasn't changed, and stays changed, then yea leave. My partner was the same for six months, after one night when I lost it and actually threw a pool cue at him and told him to stick it somewhere painful - he realized how upset I was. He said it was because of who I work with and my job. He felt insecure because he wasn't as big as those guys and felt small compared to them. He felt that if they wanted to steal me from him - they easily could. I had to remind him that it was me who chased him at the beginning and told him all the reasons I loved him. He joined a gym and started working out too - so not only is he buff now but has little frustration because instead of voice-ing his silly thoughts (that he regrets later) he puts his mind on his gym work out. M xx (Sorry it's so detailed!)