All the others being mean may be hypocrites. Just wait until they find a nice, most perfect guy who changes on them and they find it harder then normal to drop him immediately. But what they say has truth, he is selfish. I looked this up because I'm involved in a similar situation. But I was the "flirt" while I found out he was already married!! I feel so bad for his wife who I still know nothing about...She may be like you...Devoted and caring while he's clueless. I told him I wasn't the type to fool around. I'm still talking to him, just not flirty. It's been a week since I found out...I don't really know what to do he said he understands. Now, I know that he's bad and would do the same to me if we were ever together. I know I can find another who is actually available as hard as it feels right now. I have implied to him about staying with his girl and that maybe all he's looking for is right there...But he avoids it, of course. Based on your bf and my friend, they may love you but find a thrill in flirting with other girls and getting their approval, or because they love the thought of having different kinds of sex. It's as guiltless and natural to them as making more friends. I said it's normal, because this is an age-old story...But that doesn't mean I think it's ok. I feel you need to try really hard to get away from him. It sounds bad, but maybe you can start talking to other guys more freely. Not to make your bf jealous or anything, but if that's what he thinks he can do, why wait for him? He can't keep doing that if it bothers you. If you accept his apology he will likely see this as an excuse to do this even in marriage. He backstabs you, he does it in the open, he's immature, doesn't recognize what love needs
Is it normal for my boyfriend to be talking to other girls?
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All the others being mean may be hypocrites. Just wait until they find a nice, most perfect guy who changes on them and they find it harder then normal to drop him immediately. But what they say has truth, he is selfish. I looked this up because I'm involved in a similar situation. But I was the "flirt" while I found out he was already married!! I feel so bad for his wife who I still know nothing about...She may be like you...Devoted and caring while he's clueless. I told him I wasn't the type to fool around. I'm still talking to him, just not flirty. It's been a week since I found out...I don't really know what to do he said he understands. Now, I know that he's bad and would do the same to me if we were ever together. I know I can find another who is actually available as hard as it feels right now. I have implied to him about staying with his girl and that maybe all he's looking for is right there...But he avoids it, of course. Based on your bf and my friend, they may love you but find a thrill in flirting with other girls and getting their approval, or because they love the thought of having different kinds of sex. It's as guiltless and natural to them as making more friends. I said it's normal, because this is an age-old story...But that doesn't mean I think it's ok. I feel you need to try really hard to get away from him. It sounds bad, but maybe you can start talking to other guys more freely. Not to make your bf jealous or anything, but if that's what he thinks he can do, why wait for him? He can't keep doing that if it bothers you. If you accept his apology he will likely see this as an excuse to do this even in marriage. He backstabs you, he does it in the open, he's immature, doesn't recognize what love needs