Ah yes. I've been there. It ended up costing me a hell of a lot of money that I didn't really have to spare. Took me 2 whole years before I finally worked up the courage to escape, and a further 5 to pay off all the debts.
Please remember that all of the control that you think he has... It's not real. He hits you, sure, but that doesn't give him any real power. He's pathetic.
Do you live with him? If so you need to either wait until he's out of the house, pack your stuff and go, or if he never goes out then either bring a couple of trusted friends with you to help you pack, or failing that just call the police. They will help you. You are not stuck.
This is not a relationship. You are just a purse and a punching bag for this loser.
Is it normal for my boyfriend to ask for money all the time?
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Ah yes. I've been there. It ended up costing me a hell of a lot of money that I didn't really have to spare. Took me 2 whole years before I finally worked up the courage to escape, and a further 5 to pay off all the debts.
Please remember that all of the control that you think he has... It's not real. He hits you, sure, but that doesn't give him any real power. He's pathetic.
Do you live with him? If so you need to either wait until he's out of the house, pack your stuff and go, or if he never goes out then either bring a couple of trusted friends with you to help you pack, or failing that just call the police. They will help you. You are not stuck.
This is not a relationship. You are just a purse and a punching bag for this loser.