Is it normal for my boyfriend to act like this?

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I am 21F my boyfriend is 26M, been together 3 years. Loving relationship, we communicate a lot and we have had few issues.

When we're intimate my boyfriend often pretends he's not into what we're doing asking me to ''please stop'', pretending to cry and that he's uncomfortable - I know he's pretending because of the tone he uses and the way he is when he *actually* doesn't want it. He also calls me ma'am and acts clueless, like a schoolboy. I feel like this roleplaying thing turns him on. None of my previous partners were like this. Is he just a sub? lol

I love my boyfriend even with his quirks, I don't mind that he likes this sort of roleplay, but I'm still wondering... Is it normal?

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Based on 37 votes (14 yes)
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  • Tommythecaty
    2 years ago

    You have no boyfriend.

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    • RoseIsabella
      2 years ago

      😁

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  • Boojum
    2 years ago

    If it is role-play, he's pretty clueless at it. Or maybe he's just deluded enough to believe that you have the power to read his mind.

    I suggest you talk about what's going on some time when you're both in a relaxed state of mind and in a context that isn't overtly sexual.

    As for it being "normal", male subs aren't that uncommon, and that's about all there is to be said on that point.

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    2 years ago

    Yeah probably just some weird thing he wants you to go along with

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  • ellnell
    2 years ago

    That would freak me out. If it's a fetish then why hasn't he told you so and asked if you are willing to participate in it?
    Ask him what the hell he thinks he's doing. If a man started acting like that with me i'd push him off the bed and tell him to go find a babycrib to sleep in and that i'm putting his foolish ass up for adoption then i'd dump him if he didn't stop being a baby.

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  • 12345678912
    2 years ago

    Mine does exactly the same thing . I think all imaginary boyfriends who are going with men are like this. Don't worry about it.

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  • uglybanter
    2 years ago

    He should've just told you in the first place

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  • randypete
    2 years ago

    who cares

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  • anabnormal_guy
    2 years ago

    does his penis have extra skin?

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  • fatok
    2 years ago

    maybe he's gay

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    2 years ago

    Sounds like he has some sort of rape fetish or something.

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  • DADNSCAL
    2 years ago

    What he’s doing is called emotional blackmail. When he doesn’t get his way, he cries like a child because he knows you’ll give in. Stand your ground and tell him to grow up.

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    • aqueous_solution
      2 years ago

      The thing is that he does it when we're already in a situation where I want to do sexual stuff. He doesn't have to pressure me for sex.

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  • BalboSaggins
    2 years ago

    This isn't reddit. Fuck off

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    • Clunk42
      2 years ago

      No, you can ask way more on this website than on Reddit, including this, so your complaint is void. This post doesn't break any of the rules, so there is no problem here.

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