I would ask why he felt he needed to keep it secret.
Most likely, he meant to avoid having to explain or have a talk about this, possibly causing problems or stress in your relationship.
Still, it's important you tell him that honesty and openness are necessary for a working relationship. Show him that you stand by him and will not get mad for something like that IF he tells you and doesn't hide things. That doesn't mean you have to like it, and feel free to say so, but once you "etablish" that there are secrets between you, that will cause you only problems later on.
Thats why i think talking will be important. Not asking and leaving may be overreacting when the reason was harmless(did they stay friends afterwards, did she pick something up, WHAT did your friend see and how long?)
And staying with him without asking will only help "etablish" secrets between you as something normal.
Is it normal for my boyfriend?
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I would ask why he felt he needed to keep it secret.
Most likely, he meant to avoid having to explain or have a talk about this, possibly causing problems or stress in your relationship.
Still, it's important you tell him that honesty and openness are necessary for a working relationship. Show him that you stand by him and will not get mad for something like that IF he tells you and doesn't hide things. That doesn't mean you have to like it, and feel free to say so, but once you "etablish" that there are secrets between you, that will cause you only problems later on.
Thats why i think talking will be important. Not asking and leaving may be overreacting when the reason was harmless(did they stay friends afterwards, did she pick something up, WHAT did your friend see and how long?)
And staying with him without asking will only help "etablish" secrets between you as something normal.
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Thanks!