IIN for my bf to push my sexual limits?

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  • I agree with Lestat and CD: he doesn't respect you.

    If you're desperate to be with someone who doesn't respect you, then you have a serious problem with self-respect.

    There's a ten year age difference between my wife and me, but she was forty when we met. At your age, that's a lot more significant, and - meaning no disrespect to you - I have to wonder what a guy his age gets out of being with a high school student. Apart from the obvious, obviously...

    I'd suggest that he's "sweet" to you simply because he wants to keep you around because you're the youngest girl he's found that's willing to fuck him.

    Given what you say, I have to wonder what you're getting out of this. Do you have a thing for bad boys? Maybe you feel that having a boyfriend his age proves that you're not a kid anymore? Both of those are fairly common, and both are stupid reasons for being with someone.

    The world is full of guys older than you who would treat you with respect and not keep pressuring you to violate your boundaries. You have the choice of sticking with this disrespectful jerk or dumping him and finding someone better.

    You say you're afraid to lose him, but the fact is that would be no great loss.

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