It’s ok to push some limits but hard limits should not be pushed at all. I’d say dump him. He’s an ass and he doesn’t respect you. When you say stop he needs to stop. Not mabe stop, not eventually stop. Just stop. He should be wearing a condom every time. And if he doesn’t want to than you shouldn’t let his little worm anywhere near you. He needs to respect your boundaries. It’s good that your having fun but be smart about it. Be safe, sane and consensual. If you lose him than he’s not worth your time and you will easily get someone else better.
The only thing I'm worried about is if he doesn't listen to me when we're having sex, what if he doesn't listen when i try to break up with him? He's not the kind of person I want to get angry, but I don't know how to do it without making him angry.
Is he violent when he’s angry? Because that’s not ok. And if you broke up with him he would have no right to be mad. He’s the one that refused to listen and respect your boundaries if anyone should be angry it’s you. He violates your trust.
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It’s ok to push some limits but hard limits should not be pushed at all. I’d say dump him. He’s an ass and he doesn’t respect you. When you say stop he needs to stop. Not mabe stop, not eventually stop. Just stop. He should be wearing a condom every time. And if he doesn’t want to than you shouldn’t let his little worm anywhere near you. He needs to respect your boundaries. It’s good that your having fun but be smart about it. Be safe, sane and consensual. If you lose him than he’s not worth your time and you will easily get someone else better.
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The only thing I'm worried about is if he doesn't listen to me when we're having sex, what if he doesn't listen when i try to break up with him? He's not the kind of person I want to get angry, but I don't know how to do it without making him angry.
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Is he violent when he’s angry? Because that’s not ok. And if you broke up with him he would have no right to be mad. He’s the one that refused to listen and respect your boundaries if anyone should be angry it’s you. He violates your trust.
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He has anger issues which he is currently dealing with. He has had outbursts but has never hit me in a non sexual way.