Is it normal for my bf to have such a low sex drive?

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I am a female I meat my boyfriend online and have known himf or years he was verys exual online, We met in personabout a year ago and are living togeather. I am substantially younger than he is but he is only in his 30's why is it that he has a lower sex deive than me? I want sex all the time. I mean all the time, and everytime we have sex he only want to do it one way all he wants is for me to give hima blow job and then I suck him until he almost cums then he does me doggy style until he cums, To me It sux, I try things surprising him naked, giving him bj's unexpectedly, flashing him, trying to shower with him, he doesn't bite, I feel like I am attractive and he tells me i am , I know he loves me but our sex life sux, Also he never wants to make out, why do you think he is liek this is he the only one who has this , what can i do to help him feel better, and how can I get laid more often is this normal?

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  • matthewkoehler
    7 years ago | pl

    Get a new boyfriend.

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  • x1frosty16
    12 years ago | pl

    Just dont give him anything untill hes willing to return the favor. And next time you make him eat your pussy, strap on a dildo, turn him around and finish in his ass. And when its all over with ask him if it was good? Lol

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    Sorry to say but this looks like a bad match. I see it a lot, and it's happened to me: great guy but lousy sex, or rotten guy but great sex. Men are pretty hardwired when it comes to their sexuality and sexual habits. I don't see a solution with your guy (sexually). Either suffer with it, or if the sex is important, break up.

    We're really looking for two boyfriends or two husbands. One that's a great companion, lover, hero, father, and soul mate. And the other that's a really great lay. Sometimes we get them both in the same person. But that's never happened for me.

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  • knoshann
    12 years ago | pl

    Wow that's selfish of him. Talk to him about your needs. Don't feel bad though because it would be very normal to feel frustrated in your situation. He has to understand that someone can't be that selfish and expect to stay in a relationship.

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  • EnchantedSpirit
    13 years ago | pl

    No, he doesnt, i feel like our sex life is like horrible. I love him soo much and he loves me but I feel like when he is horny i give him head then get i little penis time, I wish it was more sensual, he reallys ux a it and doesnt understand that I have need s to he says well you want it all the time, well If i ever got good sex I wouldnt want it hardly at all, if i talk to him he just hears nagging because he doesnt understand. Sex is such a bad subject for us, I never gt to cum with him. I love him and he loves me but it just sux being soo horny and never being pleased

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  • lightgiver
    13 years ago | pl

    Bah he doesn't even try to pleasure ya to your end by fingering or whatnot?

    And to start with a blowjob so he finishes faster.

    I haven't had sex but I'm still young (early 19). Doesn't mean I don't know anything (ty internet lol). Id like to give my first an experience she will have trouble finding anywhere else. I learned techniques to last longer too im dying to try out.

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  • EnchantedSpirit
    13 years ago | pl

    I do but it sux:(

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  • girrrl
    13 years ago | pl

    Everyone has a different libido. It's normal. You are probably just going to have to learn to deal with it.

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