Is it normal for my bf to have social anxiety and not want sex?

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Me and my bf have known each other for 10 years. We've bin together 2. And all ready it feels like we're fading. He mean everything and more to me we moved in a year ago but somewhere he's lost his way he has Social anxiety and he's not the same he won't clean up he won't cook he won't even have sex with me as much use to be weekends then once a week now once every 3 weeks and I have a high sex drive I don't no what to do please can someone help me xxx

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  • thegypsysailor
    7 years ago | pl

    What does 'social anxiety' have to do with participating in household chores? It sounds like he's just found a away to get you to do his share.
    Sounds like you two have a codependent relationship that isn't at all healthy for either of you. If you can't get professional couples' counseling, I'd get the hell out. In this case I'd be looking out for #1 before it's too late.

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  • Ginger_V232
    7 years ago | pl

    Reading this gave me a headache.....

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago | pl

    He's really got you fooled, hasn't he? Social anxiety has nothing to do with his general laziness.

    He's using you, how much longer are you going to put up with it?

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  • unionclocks
    7 years ago | pl

    ask him about whats been happening. depression rooting from social anxiety can be really draining.

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  • thecunt
    7 years ago | pl

    social anxiety has nothing to do with being a lazy prick and not smashing your pussy on a regular basis. dump his arse.

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  • 53739
    7 years ago | pl

    I have social anxiety and I know how it feels, people who don't have it just don't understand.

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  • Short4Words
    7 years ago | pl

    He might be depressed and dealing with something he hasn't let you in on. This usually doesn't happen without a reason.

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