Is it normal for my bf to be on dating websites?

I got into my bf phone and found out he's on dating websites is it normal?

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Based on 48 votes (5 yes)
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  • Dump his ass. Cheating is unforgivable.

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    • Somenormie

      I hope they dump his ass Hinako.

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  • MonteMetcalfe

    Perfectly normal for cheaters.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Dump him like the two-timing sack of shit that he is.

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  • Ask yourself if that is normal and fine or not, what the fuck are you asking us for? Like no its not normal unless you have one of those open relationships bs things. But since you have to ask if that is normal you obviously had no reaction to it such as anger or hurt so maybe that is fine by you then. Have fun

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  • SkullsNRoses

    Absolutely not normal, there is no excuse for being on dating apps in a monogamous relationship. Chuck him in the bin.

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  • jrbsportz

    Girl need to dump is dumb ass cause he's looking for someone and he's not into you.go find a man who wants to be with you,all of you just saying!!

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  • YE

    Your comment has brought on Cheaters TV Show nostalgia.

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  • olderdude-xx

    Many dating websites require paid memberships and a 6 month or 1 year membership tends to be a lot cheaper than monthly.

    So, I was often a paid member of dating websites for months after I met someone.

    While I did clear my email or messages periodically, I was not actively looking if I was in a potentially long term relationship (and I let the Woman involved know that I had such memberships and would clear my messages periodically - and even let them watch me if they wanted to).

    A reality: I was on dating websites for over 20 years before I met the lady who became my wife on one.

    Talk to him about it - and ask why and will he let you see the messages he is sending.

    If he's actively looking.... time to dump him.

    If he's just maintaining his account and sending messages that "thanks for the interest, however I'm currently unavailable" (or similar)... give him a chance.

    Only some of the dating websites I used allowed me to suspend my profile from view. Even then, people who had messaged me before could still message me.

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    • Grunewald

      This.

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  • LornaMae

    Sorry I digressed before, OP. It's not normal, unless you've gotten together recently. Did you meet on said app? If that's the case then maybe normal...

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  • hauntedbysandwiches

    Far from normal

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  • YE

    I think BF is taking showing you his adventurous personality too near.

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  • Tinybird

    yeah, you should go on one too

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  • fatok

    unless he is including you as part of a 3some?

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  • have_a_good_day

    Hoe, maybe yo ass changed. Maybe yo ass ain't giving da nigga enough of what he wants.
    If da mothafucka was truly happy with you then he won't be on no dating apps. Ask yoself what you are doing wrong or what you could do to make yo nigga feel fed both spiritually and physically.
    Fahreal.
    That's what's up

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    • miss_jass06

      If her boyfriend is not happy with her, he should just tell her or break up with her and NOT cheat.

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      • have_a_good_day

        Bitches always wantin to play da victim. Never wanna accept no blame. Hoe, if you was in da hood right now we'd bust a nut in yo ass.
        That's what's up

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        • miss_jass06

          No, the blame is usually on both sides, although it's mostly a guy's fault if he can't keep his dick in his pants. If you're not happy in a relationship just be honest and freaking leave the girl instead of cheating. Also, did you just call me a hoe?? You don't even know me and you dare to be so disrespectful. Shame on you.

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          • have_a_good_day

            Bitch why you coming at me so violently? Nah Ah!
            You better check yoself befo you wreck it Ralph!
            Fahreal.
            That's what's up

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  • 1WeirdGuy

    He doesnt cheat. He just jerks his dick off w other girls pussys. He doesnt like them tho. He hates it

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    • LornaMae

      You think you're re talking to your wife?

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      • 1WeirdGuy

        Yup im talkin to my wife whatever thats supposed to mean 🤟🤘🤙☝✌

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        • Clunk42

          She is suggesting that you're speaking for yourself.

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          • 1WeirdGuy

            I got that part but it could mean that I dont enjoy my wife or that I dont enjoy the girls on the dating sites

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            • Clunk42

              Or it could mean that the entire thing applies.

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          • LornaMae

            At least someone got it...

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        • LornaMae

          You don't get it? Oh, I thought you'd be smart enough... You never fail to prove me right! :)

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