It makes a lot of sense. I thought about what you were saying outside of the situation and analyzed if I was really doing that, or considering that.
The fact of the matter is, a few times I was attracted to the person so it was highly disappointing when they sent the pic. If he sends it so soon without any asking for it, I am led to believe those guys are then vain, presumptuous or both/more, but either way that's a quality that's a deal-breaker if you ever want to have sex with me. You need an invitation from me before doing that, and if you get it, you're in for a great time.
If I want sex, I know how to get it. I take it straight past the d*ck pic stage into IRL introductions to the d. In most pics I've seen the real thing is more impressive than the picture, and if I were a guy, I'd never send a picture of mine. Why do guys think a pic of that will turn us on anyway? Most of the time if it's out I'm not making eye contact with it anyway, and even when I'm up close and personal I wouldn't do so because, without going into too much detail, staring too long would make me dizzy. I don't even think I'd be able to match a d*ck with a face even if I've seen both in person before. It's kind of like getting sent a picture of your elbow. Who cares?
I like a sexy body overall, and a handsome face. I'm not thinking about that (or any one) body part by itself when I'm fantasizing about a hot guy - I'm thinking about how it feels inside me & what he's doing with it. But he's never going to get there if he jumps the gun before I clearly request it.
Is it normal for men you just met to text pictures of their privates?
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It makes a lot of sense. I thought about what you were saying outside of the situation and analyzed if I was really doing that, or considering that.
The fact of the matter is, a few times I was attracted to the person so it was highly disappointing when they sent the pic. If he sends it so soon without any asking for it, I am led to believe those guys are then vain, presumptuous or both/more, but either way that's a quality that's a deal-breaker if you ever want to have sex with me. You need an invitation from me before doing that, and if you get it, you're in for a great time.
If I want sex, I know how to get it. I take it straight past the d*ck pic stage into IRL introductions to the d. In most pics I've seen the real thing is more impressive than the picture, and if I were a guy, I'd never send a picture of mine. Why do guys think a pic of that will turn us on anyway? Most of the time if it's out I'm not making eye contact with it anyway, and even when I'm up close and personal I wouldn't do so because, without going into too much detail, staring too long would make me dizzy. I don't even think I'd be able to match a d*ck with a face even if I've seen both in person before. It's kind of like getting sent a picture of your elbow. Who cares?
I like a sexy body overall, and a handsome face. I'm not thinking about that (or any one) body part by itself when I'm fantasizing about a hot guy - I'm thinking about how it feels inside me & what he's doing with it. But he's never going to get there if he jumps the gun before I clearly request it.