An ex said this about guys and girls to me before, and I hate to admit he was right, but I guess you just confirmed it. I was just hoping maybe some of them were being sincere, but I guess I was naive for giving them the benefit of the doubt, and believing they thought I had something to offer them they're interested in besides sex, but I guess I was dumb to think that too. No hope to find a decent guy then, right? Just assume all guys who are nice or civil to to me just want sex? That's so depressing. Makes me kind of wish I was a lesbian, but though I don't let on (at least consciously), I *do* like d*ck.
But suffice it to say I do nothing to invite this behavior, and I know the difference. I understand it may seem like I must be, since it happens so often I actually wonder if it's normal or not (and that's exactly why).
I've told guy friends about this phenomenon, and many have said I don't have to flirt or even be nice, just civil, but "guys are dogs" and I just have a "sexy way" about me.
Next time a guy asks me for my number, I'll just spray him with mace and scream, "911, MOTHERF**KER!!!"
The word uncouth comes to mind. Nuw most of we men are simple creatures and even nice guys want and enjoy sex. However there is a time and a place and it can be later and guys can still survive.
Is it normal for men you just met to text pictures of their privates?
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An ex said this about guys and girls to me before, and I hate to admit he was right, but I guess you just confirmed it. I was just hoping maybe some of them were being sincere, but I guess I was naive for giving them the benefit of the doubt, and believing they thought I had something to offer them they're interested in besides sex, but I guess I was dumb to think that too. No hope to find a decent guy then, right? Just assume all guys who are nice or civil to to me just want sex? That's so depressing. Makes me kind of wish I was a lesbian, but though I don't let on (at least consciously), I *do* like d*ck.
But suffice it to say I do nothing to invite this behavior, and I know the difference. I understand it may seem like I must be, since it happens so often I actually wonder if it's normal or not (and that's exactly why).
I've told guy friends about this phenomenon, and many have said I don't have to flirt or even be nice, just civil, but "guys are dogs" and I just have a "sexy way" about me.
Next time a guy asks me for my number, I'll just spray him with mace and scream, "911, MOTHERF**KER!!!"
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The word uncouth comes to mind. Nuw most of we men are simple creatures and even nice guys want and enjoy sex. However there is a time and a place and it can be later and guys can still survive.