Is it normal for men to wack off to porn after having inter course

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My boyfriend an I have been together for a year an when we first started having sex he would come but it would take a couple hours I didn't mind because I loved it. But now when we have intercourse he doesn't come an he waits till he thinks I'm sleeping an he will leave the tv on in our room turn the light off an sit on the couch in the room,well one night I acted like I had to use the bathroom an caught him well after I came back in he went to bathroom to finish but every night he does this an he watch's porn on his phone, I have talked to him about it because I feel like I'm not good enough anymore an he's not attracted to me but he says he loves making love to me an he is attracted to me but he comes faster when wacks off can someone please give me some advice because I can't take it anymore

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  • dappled
    10 years ago | pl

    I have known men who have foregone sex to watch porn and masturbate instead. It was nothing to do with the porn being "better" than their partners and everything to do with them being lazy.

    I don't really know men who don't climax during sex, though, and then finish off with porn. I'd say the problem isn't you at all, but that he either has a physical or psychological reason why this is happening. Chances are it can be treated but you should be sensitive in raising it as a "problem".

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  • ccjigsaw
    10 years ago | pl

    Ohh man that must suck :( I feel for you. I went through a similar issue. It's not you, it's him! This is when porn starts to become a problem... There's nothing I can do to help you out, he's not going to change, and it's just going to hurt you... I don't think this feeling of not being good enough is going to go away on it's own...if it doesn't, I recommend moving on. I wish you luck. Stuff like this can be so degrading..

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  • thehappyamoeba
    10 years ago | pl

    I had a boyfriend that did this exact thing. It didn't end well...

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