i dont wana adopt i want my own child with my blood, and that dont make me selfish shit! i mean if the guy dont want anything to do with a kid anyway thennn..there is no problem righht?
There is an issue with that logic. You are far better off finding a man that will be a father vs having a kid and then trying to find a daddy later. Men do not want a woman with another man's kid. You better count on being alone or mistreated. Granted my gf has a daughter and I had an ex with two lil boys. Oh my, the stories I heard...
You are wrong. A person needs a dad in their life. The reason I said you sounded selfish was because you said you did not want the dad in your life, which probably means that the dad would not be in the baby's life either, not because you said you wanted a baby. Depriving a baby of a proper father figure just because you do not want a man to be a part of your life is selfish.
is it normal for me to want someone to get me pregnant then leave?
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You sound very selfish to want that, but maybe you could look into adoption or something. I do not know.
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i dont wana adopt i want my own child with my blood, and that dont make me selfish shit! i mean if the guy dont want anything to do with a kid anyway thennn..there is no problem righht?
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There is an issue with that logic. You are far better off finding a man that will be a father vs having a kid and then trying to find a daddy later. Men do not want a woman with another man's kid. You better count on being alone or mistreated. Granted my gf has a daughter and I had an ex with two lil boys. Oh my, the stories I heard...
Also, you did not specify that adoption was not an option for you.
You are wrong. A person needs a dad in their life. The reason I said you sounded selfish was because you said you did not want the dad in your life, which probably means that the dad would not be in the baby's life either, not because you said you wanted a baby. Depriving a baby of a proper father figure just because you do not want a man to be a part of your life is selfish.