It sounds to me like he's letting it sink in that she has really chosen someone else. He knows that he has to let go now and stop wasting his life on someone who doesn't want him. It is admirable that he has always been truthful with you. I think that you are going to come out on top of this situation - it has taken him a while but the penny has finally dropped.
Thank you for an honest answer :) and also me and his sister talked today, and she said that he just wants to be single for a while. Seeing as it has been over a year and he isn't seeing anyone and still with me for the most part, do you think that answer still applies? That it could just be a little while longer, giving himself the time to REALLY be sure he wants to be with me since he knows if/when we get back together that I am in for the long hall? You seem like a reasonable guy that might understand a guys feelings lol.
I'm female but I do understand men! I do know one way to hurry him up to make his decision.... go out on dates with other guys.
Men are just like wee boys with toys and go mad when they think someone else might take their toy from them. Otherwise you are just there for him - and he has no need to make a decision soon.
I'd shake him up a little and suggest that you can't wait for ever and maybe go out to dinner with a male friend :o) You might just panic him into realising what he is about to lose. I doubt he'd take the risk of losing a second lady from his life!!!
I think a year has been long enough waiting around while he procrastinates. Maybe he has it too good at home with his mom, or has few living expenses, or just doesn't want to commit full time. Shake him up :o)
Im really sorry! I read your name wrong I thought it said jaybird! Im soo sorry about that! And I have been going went on a few dates since we broke up but I didn't tell him about it, maybe I should next time I go on one lol. I like the shake him up thing though lol. I shall try it :P
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It sounds to me like he's letting it sink in that she has really chosen someone else. He knows that he has to let go now and stop wasting his life on someone who doesn't want him. It is admirable that he has always been truthful with you. I think that you are going to come out on top of this situation - it has taken him a while but the penny has finally dropped.
Don't push him. He will talk when he's ready :o)
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Thank you for an honest answer :) and also me and his sister talked today, and she said that he just wants to be single for a while. Seeing as it has been over a year and he isn't seeing anyone and still with me for the most part, do you think that answer still applies? That it could just be a little while longer, giving himself the time to REALLY be sure he wants to be with me since he knows if/when we get back together that I am in for the long hall? You seem like a reasonable guy that might understand a guys feelings lol.
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I'm female but I do understand men! I do know one way to hurry him up to make his decision.... go out on dates with other guys.
Men are just like wee boys with toys and go mad when they think someone else might take their toy from them. Otherwise you are just there for him - and he has no need to make a decision soon.
I'd shake him up a little and suggest that you can't wait for ever and maybe go out to dinner with a male friend :o) You might just panic him into realising what he is about to lose. I doubt he'd take the risk of losing a second lady from his life!!!
I think a year has been long enough waiting around while he procrastinates. Maybe he has it too good at home with his mom, or has few living expenses, or just doesn't want to commit full time. Shake him up :o)
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Im really sorry! I read your name wrong I thought it said jaybird! Im soo sorry about that! And I have been going went on a few dates since we broke up but I didn't tell him about it, maybe I should next time I go on one lol. I like the shake him up thing though lol. I shall try it :P