Well said RoseIsabella. I can see how your point of view with dating is valid yes. Unfortunately compromise and negotiation is a part of most relationships. Even work relationships can be that way. Also I can understand the pet thing to a point but not everyone will think like that.
Most of what is driving the single parwnt stuff is the media as it perpetuate to women "I don't need a man" attitude. Its really disgusting to think somepne wants to raise children by themself. That is diffucult but also using a significant other as an ATM and a sperm donor is selfish in itself. I agree it is better to be happy and single then in a relationship miserable.
Yeah if I met someone who seemed perfect, but he didn't like animals it would have to be an automatic deal breaker for me, and cats always sleep in the bed.
I think when people have children they ought to put the children first, but I can't have children anymore, and I have no desire to adopt. I honestly don't want the responsibility. The truth of the matter is that I don't have a really strong desire to care for another person.
IIN for me to think for men that dating is high risk, low reward
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Well said RoseIsabella. I can see how your point of view with dating is valid yes. Unfortunately compromise and negotiation is a part of most relationships. Even work relationships can be that way. Also I can understand the pet thing to a point but not everyone will think like that.
Most of what is driving the single parwnt stuff is the media as it perpetuate to women "I don't need a man" attitude. Its really disgusting to think somepne wants to raise children by themself. That is diffucult but also using a significant other as an ATM and a sperm donor is selfish in itself. I agree it is better to be happy and single then in a relationship miserable.
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Yeah if I met someone who seemed perfect, but he didn't like animals it would have to be an automatic deal breaker for me, and cats always sleep in the bed.
I think when people have children they ought to put the children first, but I can't have children anymore, and I have no desire to adopt. I honestly don't want the responsibility. The truth of the matter is that I don't have a really strong desire to care for another person.
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Agreed and I believe that if children are involved that BOTH parents are responsible, and BOTH parents have say in decision making.