I don't think you are, I tend to hold grudges as well, I know it's not the healthiest thing to do, but I think it's healthier than walking through life like an idiot saying "well you sort of fucked me over but it's all good, let's sort of be friends aga...oh you fucked me over again".
I know we're all supposed to love each other and "get along" and it's definitely nice to try and make a positive difference. But don't forget to put yourself first. Nobody else will.
That's basically a grudge. I've done the same thing with co-workers and other people in life. Basically just cut them off for the slightest thing, if it matters it's not the right thing to do.
IIN for me to simply dispose of people who "wrong" me in a way?
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I don't think you are, I tend to hold grudges as well, I know it's not the healthiest thing to do, but I think it's healthier than walking through life like an idiot saying "well you sort of fucked me over but it's all good, let's sort of be friends aga...oh you fucked me over again".
I know we're all supposed to love each other and "get along" and it's definitely nice to try and make a positive difference. But don't forget to put yourself first. Nobody else will.
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I don't think it's a grudge. I don't feel any resentment or hatred. I just feel NOTHING for them until they correct their mistake.
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That's basically a grudge. I've done the same thing with co-workers and other people in life. Basically just cut them off for the slightest thing, if it matters it's not the right thing to do.
Haha I feel the same way .