Yes it is normal.
From a bright assumption
You obviously loved your ex boyfriend. Regretting you didn't is just reflecting that your body urges tell you they believed he was worth making a baby with. Your hesitation to have sex was your well to taught self respect for your body in the "non jungle" world were you can only successfully have living sex and if you want indeed a child in a committed relationship. You have been taught to have a high , very high level of commitment that is to have.
Or
From a dark assumption
Yes it is normal
You obviously loved your ex boyfriend. Regretting you didn't is just reflecting that your body urges now tell you they believed he was safe making a baby with him. Your hesitation to have sex was then your possible fear of being abused or rejected right after you would have had sex. keeping sex away made you hope he would not hurt you or made you hope he would stay working and waiting. Your well to taught unrealistic survival mechanism protected you from possible be re-traumatized. You have been taught to somehow to put self protection and fear of being hurt above accepting the joy of relationships and feeling lived happy
No matter what in the bright or dark assumption I (probable make an )ass (out of) u (and) me
Is it normal for me to regret NOT losing my virginity to him?
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Yes it is normal.
From a bright assumption
You obviously loved your ex boyfriend. Regretting you didn't is just reflecting that your body urges tell you they believed he was worth making a baby with. Your hesitation to have sex was your well to taught self respect for your body in the "non jungle" world were you can only successfully have living sex and if you want indeed a child in a committed relationship. You have been taught to have a high , very high level of commitment that is to have.
Or
From a dark assumption
Yes it is normal
You obviously loved your ex boyfriend. Regretting you didn't is just reflecting that your body urges now tell you they believed he was safe making a baby with him. Your hesitation to have sex was then your possible fear of being abused or rejected right after you would have had sex. keeping sex away made you hope he would not hurt you or made you hope he would stay working and waiting. Your well to taught unrealistic survival mechanism protected you from possible be re-traumatized. You have been taught to somehow to put self protection and fear of being hurt above accepting the joy of relationships and feeling lived happy
No matter what in the bright or dark assumption I (probable make an )ass (out of) u (and) me