Well I half agree with you and half agree with your girlfriend. Because
1. She may have not wanted a child at the time she wasn't pregnant, but time changes. And once a woman becomes pregnant their is nothing that can take away their motherhood. It's not her fault that she had a change of heart. That she actually wanted to be a mother.
Now the part that I agree with you is that she could have listened to your explanation of why you thought she should've gotten an abortion. But just because she didn't listen to you doesn't mean you don't have to trust her, she was just protecting her child. That's what any mother would do.
I think you should go talk to her and make things right because she is going to need all the help she needs when she gives birth, even if says she doesn't need your help still be their for her, it will show her that you want to be there for her and the child.
:)
Is it normal for me to have resentment toward my pregnant girlfriend?
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Well I half agree with you and half agree with your girlfriend. Because
1. She may have not wanted a child at the time she wasn't pregnant, but time changes. And once a woman becomes pregnant their is nothing that can take away their motherhood. It's not her fault that she had a change of heart. That she actually wanted to be a mother.
Now the part that I agree with you is that she could have listened to your explanation of why you thought she should've gotten an abortion. But just because she didn't listen to you doesn't mean you don't have to trust her, she was just protecting her child. That's what any mother would do.
I think you should go talk to her and make things right because she is going to need all the help she needs when she gives birth, even if says she doesn't need your help still be their for her, it will show her that you want to be there for her and the child.
:)