Is it normal for me to have resentment toward my pregnant girlfriend?

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  • I'm sure you were taught in school that if you don't use a condom, you can get a girl pregnant ( never mind aids etc) how can you honestly sit there and blame her for this?? The only difference is she is facing up to her mistake. It's sad that you aren't. If you were old enough to have sex and stupid enough not to use a condom. The only person you can really blame for this is yourself. Also you can't blame her for being unsure about killing your child, the child didn't ask for your stupidness and irresponsibility did it? I suggest you either walk away permanently or you take responsibility for "your" actions. Mistakes happen, now you just have to look in the mirror and face up to it. You were both stupid but soon there will be a child who didn't ask to come from your stupidness, are you going to support her and stand by her and be there for her/them or walk away... maybe take a couple of weeks away to really think about it. Don't play the blame game just step up

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    • He is not blaming her for getting pregnant he is pissed cause she cut him out of any descision making process and any dicussion at all.

      She treated him like a sperm donor. He got used and I for one feel badly for him.

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