Is it normal for me to have resentment toward my pregnant girlfriend?

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  • Yes, because I'm sure if men got pregnant no man ever would go back on his decision to abort. In fact, no men even care at all when women abort their child. No man ever has backed out of a contract or handshake. Men always pay their debts. Women really need to step it up in this regard.

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    • I hope you're just being a bitch now because you are lumping all the men into one basket and it's simply not true. I agreed with everything you wrote until this post. I could lump all women into the cold, lying, manipulating, controlling, cheating, psycho basket, but that is simply not true as well.

      His thoughts and reasons for being upset are completely off base. My moto is if you can't do the time, then don't do the crime, but you can't lump all men together.

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      • Think she's being sarcastic

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        • I hope so because although I'm not men's biggest fan, they are not all douche bags.

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          • Yes, I was being sarcastic and dramatic. I've seen way too many posts like this where a guy rails on a girl for not having an abortion like it's just this matter-of-fact thing, clueless to the financial, physical and hormonal changes that happen. Not to mention spiritual. It's easy for someone who can't even get pregnant to say they'd definitely abort. Jesus Christ, you'd be no different from women, some of whom could do it and some who wouldn't.

            Just pointing out that men reneg on contracts all the time on far lesser matters than an expensive, invasive and morally questionable (for many) procedure. Where do you guys get the grounds to judge or to be so self righteous?

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            • I have no idea how or why SOME men become so judgemental or self righteous. As I wrote, I'm not men's biggest fan. Not all men are like that, however. I, for one, don't believe in abortion, but I believe women should have the choice. You're going to have to ask another guy that question because I don't have the answer.

              I think this guy simply doesn't want the responsibility of a child. I don't think he wants to support the child, either through child support or through actually raising the child. Further, I don't think he wants to support the mother in her decision to keep the child.

              I don't think his resentment has anything to do with his opinion not being considered, I think is all about him not wanting to be a father. I think he wants the abortion because he doesn't want be on the hook for the child. I think he's simply an irresponsible dick that wants to play, but doesn't want to take the responsibility of his actions when things don't go his way. It's my opinion that if you don't want children you need to take every precaution necessary even if that means abstaining from sex. If you can't do the time, don't do the crime.

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