How you are feeling: Normal
How you are dealing with the situation: Not Normal
You are not crazy for being bothered by the things or lack of things he's doing.
Why are you tolerating his childish behavior?
If there are no real consequences from you for his immature behavior, then you are just nagging and nagging isn't doing something about it.
By focusing on all the things he does that bother you, you are WASTING your precious little energy. Instead, you should focus on what you could be doing to improve the situation.
It's up to you what you want to do about it. You could kick his sorry butt out... You could give him an ultimatum with a very REAL consequence, like leaving him... You could STOP doing everything & anything (laundry, cooking, cleaning) for him... You could get rid of the TV/Xbox/Computer... There are many options, I'm sure you can find a suitable one.
is it normal for me to feel this way about my boyfriend's habits?
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How you are feeling: Normal
How you are dealing with the situation: Not Normal
You are not crazy for being bothered by the things or lack of things he's doing.
Why are you tolerating his childish behavior?
If there are no real consequences from you for his immature behavior, then you are just nagging and nagging isn't doing something about it.
By focusing on all the things he does that bother you, you are WASTING your precious little energy. Instead, you should focus on what you could be doing to improve the situation.
It's up to you what you want to do about it. You could kick his sorry butt out... You could give him an ultimatum with a very REAL consequence, like leaving him... You could STOP doing everything & anything (laundry, cooking, cleaning) for him... You could get rid of the TV/Xbox/Computer... There are many options, I'm sure you can find a suitable one.
Just stop complaining and take action.