Is it normal for me to feel this way?

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Whenever a guy screws me over or leaves me saying really hurtful things to me, I find it easier to get over that person. Eventually I stop talking to them, and months later they apologize to me and I forgive them easily. Only thing is, I don't expect much from them the second time round or cannot respect them/their feelings. What I mean by that is I lie to them about things I do that could be harmful to their feelings, just as they would have done to me in the past. And I continue to do impulsive things. You may be thinking I don't have respect for myself to go around, doing as I please but I feel I have too much respect to give them my all as I did the first time around. I guess overall I have given up with the person. Is this normal? Anyone else feel the same way or similar experiences?

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  • TheIntellect
    12 years ago

    Too forgive is to forget in a sense. It sounds like you have a lot of trouble forgiving, or that once that person has screwed you over you almost don't forgive them at all. Sounds normal to me.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      Youre damn right!

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  • UsernameNotAvailable
    12 years ago

    Yeah I think it's normal. If someone screws me over I have no emotion for them. I just don't care for them. It's like we become strangers again. I'll forgive but I won't forget.

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  • D.A.N.C.E
    12 years ago

    Yeah it's normal

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  • cat7222902
    12 years ago

    lmao women forgive they never forget...women brains are wired differently brimming on the close to cycotic...I just got out of a relationship where I loved her but she couldn't forgive me for spiting her pussy juice back in her mouth during sex...i thought it was hot but our opinions differed...i appologised and even though it seemed like a small incident...the love i had for her was eventually all there was.. after that she cheated and alot of other things happend but that little incident became the end of our relationship.

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  • grandmalicker
    12 years ago

    Same with me about the first sentence. I just say whatever and wait for them to come crawling back ;) haha

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      The funny thing is, they do crawl back!

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