Is it normal for me to feel so lost??

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Im 20 years old and while everyone my age is enjoying life just goig with the flow and what not im just here i feel like im sitting still. All my friends seem to be too busy with there lives to even give me a second glance. I just feel so alone and it not like im an unlikeable guy i was popular in high school i had friends just no one really close no one that i should expect to be here for me..

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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    It sounds like you need to get out there, meet people, take up new interests, and give your life a kick start.

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  • anya07
    13 years ago

    Youa feel alone cause your life has no meaning.Being famous in high school means nothing.You know how many friends I have but none of the is really close to me.For about 2 years I was crying every single day because I thought every one was happy they had careers,bfs or gfs till I made myself stop crying and started a new life.The same should be done by you.Start new life.Have goals,struggle for achieving them.Go out enjoy life do the things that make you laugh and have fun.friends are not there just to listen to your complains.everyone has his own life and when you do all this you will be so busy and happy you wont even remember that your friends are all busy.you will meet once a week and it will be normal.Just dont focus on that mind,try not to think about it to much

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    It's completely normal, I was just just just the same predicament, and I got out of it by getting out a bit more, meeting up with people and being brave. My guess is that you're similar to me, and find it quite difficult to approach people, or adk for things ect. Well ditch that.
    Also, you probably act differently around people when you first meet them? Maybe quite shy and reserved? Din't do that, act as if you know someone from the beggining. I know it can be hard, trust me I know, but just ignore embraessment and ignore how they might judge you, just go for it! Made myself loads of new friends like that =)

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  • CorryA90
    12 years ago

    Yeah ive been feeling the same actually. I feel like im here but my life is off somewhere else proceeding without me their

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    this is how i met Smiles :)

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    You are still young.

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