Is it normal for me to enjoy my husband having sex with other women?

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Is it normal for me to enjoy and be turned on by my husband having sex with other women?

We are a very secure couple and never have a problem with sex, but last few years I have enjoyed adding a female into our sex life! At first he wasn't too sure what to make of it, actually thought that I would be "wierded" out about the situation but when he discovered how excited I was about it, he is now fine with it!! I don't want to have another man involved strictly women!

We've had threesomes before but I actually prefer him to have sex solo with a woman, then tell me later about it while we are having sex just the two of us. I ask that he tell me, show me, do what he did with her to me. I want to feel what she felt and be the "other woman". I know you are thinking "just have the threesome", well I don't know why a prefer it this way, but I do! It makes lovemaking steamy but UNBELIEVABLY better!!

We've been married or over 10 years but I feel like every day is the first day we got married. He is very caring and always cares about my feelings first. He would never do anything I would not want him to do.

Is there other people, couples that feel this way or am I just weird? Well I guess it doesn't matter I'm happy with my husband and my life! I try to live life to the fullest and if this makes me happy why not?

Kissing is too intimate 4
Anal sex okay with other women? 1
Unprotected sex 6
Sex with 2 or more women at one time 11
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  • Ladyjane0111
    10 years ago

    Thank you RoseIsabella!

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    Is it was normal you wouldn't be asking about it.

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  • VirgilManly
    10 years ago

    If it works for you, and no one gets hurt, who are we to judge.

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    • Ladyjane0111
      10 years ago

      Thank you Virgil I appreciate your comments!

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  • yesnomaybeso
    10 years ago

    I dont really understand the answers and I didn't know what to vote...

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      I'm assuming you meant you didn't know the question?

      Is it normal for the wife to enjoy her husband having sex with other women.

      -is kissing to intimate? Meaning is it too intimate for her husband to kiss other women?

      -Anal sex with other women. Meaning is it okay for husband to have anal sex with other women?

      -unprotected sex. Is it okay to have unprotected sex

      -sex with 2 or more women? Is it okay for him to have sex with 2 or more women at one time.

      Lucky guy if I say so!!

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      • yesnomaybeso
        10 years ago

        Yeah but I don't understand, I might think kissing is too intimate but that it isn't okay to have unprotected sex so what am i supposed to vote?? I might sound silly, sorry.

        Anyway, I find it a little weird, I would probably get jealous but I think it's awesome that you don't, as long as you guys always agree.

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