Is it normal for me to care so much about mom dating a younger guy?

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My mom is 48. I'm 28. I've always thought my mom was beautiful. She can get any guy. My father was a huge nerd. Really rich guy so I obviously know why she married him. He's 5'3 and gets a really pretty wife. I'm stuck being his size with no pretty wife just a really pretty mom. My mom is 4'10 95 lbs. Tiny woman. I've always loved the fact I can lift her and stuff. I feel manly by her. Since my parents split, I've been my moms main guy. I just met her bf. A 22 year old senior. Plays football. My mom loves him. So my mom loves somebody else's son way more than her own. That's hard for me. This guy is like 6'4 250 and he treats her the way he wants to. My dad had to basically bow to her. He always did what she asked. I've always been so loyal and loving to my mom. She ignores me though and loves somebody younger than her own son way more than her son. He's not a nice guy. I'm sure he cheats on her. She has me right here and it kills me how I'm nothng to her now. She has always been a proud woman. Controlled my dad easiky. We always had to do what my mom wants. She went crazy if she didn't get her way. Now this guy comes in and she submits to him. He talks however he wants to her. This guy seems like the type that would drink and get violent also. If my mom said something he doesn't like if the guy is drunk, I could see him hitting her and the fact this guy is more than times stronger than her. He can literally kill my mom with his pinky. I've told her all this and she told me I'm just jealous. To her own son. I don't even know what to think anymore. Can anybody clear up what's going trough head? Thanks

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    Yeah, that's messed up, dude.

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  • Padfoot09
    6 years ago

    It's is normal to feel protective of family members. Just know that your mom is her own person and you mother to boot. Just let her be happy.

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  • NashamaTheWeird
    6 years ago

    It sounds like you are jealous. You have always been your mom's center of attention, and now this guy has taken your place. I am sure this relationship will not last, but in the mean time you need to focus on taking yourself, not obsessing about your mom. If you have any legitimate concerns, you should talk to her about them, but keep calm and try not to get angry as that will not improve anything.

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