Don't listen to the negative comments. I have dealt with this more than once. Mind you, I'm in a 1000 mile away long distance relationship.. Both of us working during the day we text or whatever but, a phone call at night is all we get with each other. We do hang out with friends, but we always expect a phone call even if the other falls asleep. It's just what we do. My boyfriend calls me every night. This hasn't happened in a long time to me but I can imagine it did hurt to think that your boyfriend who is supposed to care about you and love you hasn't talked to you all day after you tried to talk to him and waiting up all night long because he said he was going to call you and you were expecting it, it'd be nothing if it was just anybody but it's your love and it's a huge disappointment when they tell you they will do something and they don't do it especially when your relationship depends on it. Especially if there has been any unfaithfulness in the past, it can make you a little on edge. I don't think you overreacted because the worst that happened was you called him a dick, so what, that was a dick move. And to the comment above. "Maybe he just forgot?" Yeah that sounds nice when your boyfriend forgets about you, you must be really important. If it's something that happens frequently I would break it off because long distance relationships are hard enough, you don't want to waste your time on someone you can't actually be with that can't even give you a phone call, like giving someone a call is the hardest thing in the world. He may not have called you though because he knows you're mad, I'd at least call him now and try to talk to him about it. At least give him the benefit of the doubt first, and try and put yourself in his situation. Sorry for the rude people on here, most of them just don't understand the situation because they don't understand how frustrating it could be when it's happened for the 20th time, when it's someone far away you rarely see, and when it's someone you're in love with.
Thank you! You seem to actually understand what I'm talking about! I'm giving it one more chance and that's it. I could be spending my time with someone I could see every day, rather than being kept in the dark with unkept promises.
Oh yeah, I've spent many a night fuming and sometimes even in tears because talking to him is what I look forward to before I go to bed, especially on bad days. Plus, it hurts your feelings when it seems like the person you love doesn't care if they talk to you or not.
Is it normal for me to be kind of pissed off and upset about this?
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Don't listen to the negative comments. I have dealt with this more than once. Mind you, I'm in a 1000 mile away long distance relationship.. Both of us working during the day we text or whatever but, a phone call at night is all we get with each other. We do hang out with friends, but we always expect a phone call even if the other falls asleep. It's just what we do. My boyfriend calls me every night. This hasn't happened in a long time to me but I can imagine it did hurt to think that your boyfriend who is supposed to care about you and love you hasn't talked to you all day after you tried to talk to him and waiting up all night long because he said he was going to call you and you were expecting it, it'd be nothing if it was just anybody but it's your love and it's a huge disappointment when they tell you they will do something and they don't do it especially when your relationship depends on it. Especially if there has been any unfaithfulness in the past, it can make you a little on edge. I don't think you overreacted because the worst that happened was you called him a dick, so what, that was a dick move. And to the comment above. "Maybe he just forgot?" Yeah that sounds nice when your boyfriend forgets about you, you must be really important. If it's something that happens frequently I would break it off because long distance relationships are hard enough, you don't want to waste your time on someone you can't actually be with that can't even give you a phone call, like giving someone a call is the hardest thing in the world. He may not have called you though because he knows you're mad, I'd at least call him now and try to talk to him about it. At least give him the benefit of the doubt first, and try and put yourself in his situation. Sorry for the rude people on here, most of them just don't understand the situation because they don't understand how frustrating it could be when it's happened for the 20th time, when it's someone far away you rarely see, and when it's someone you're in love with.
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Thank you! You seem to actually understand what I'm talking about! I'm giving it one more chance and that's it. I could be spending my time with someone I could see every day, rather than being kept in the dark with unkept promises.
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Oh yeah, I've spent many a night fuming and sometimes even in tears because talking to him is what I look forward to before I go to bed, especially on bad days. Plus, it hurts your feelings when it seems like the person you love doesn't care if they talk to you or not.
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Exactly!
Is there someone else specific you like that you could see everyday or are you saying that you could find someone else?
Doesn't sound like he values your talks as much as you but I could be wrong.
Let him hear you with friends so he knows you're not waiting for his calls.