Is it normal for me getting mad at him at sight of something?

My boyfriend is a gamer and he is always on the computer or Xbox. We were both in the mood and he said we can after we showered. So I jumped in the shower so I can jump his bones. I was taking a shower and after I decided to come out naked and surprise my boyfriend. When I came out I saw him on the Xbox and on his laptop. He is always on the laptop playing his computer games. I am tried of it because I want to spend time with him. I always tell him get off the laptop or I want to spend time with you. But today after I posed naked for him and waited to see if he was going to drop the Xbox remote and jump in bed he didn't. So I put my clothes on and started cleaning. He got mad because I didn't make any effort in getting him away from the Xbox and drag him to bed. Now he is mad at me because I assumed supposedly that he was on his laptop and Xbox at the same time and that I didn't make more of an effort to fool around. How can I make more of an effort if you are constantly mad and tired of seeing your boyfriend on the computer playing computer games all the time. I am getting tired of telling him to get off. He wants me to do actions to tell him to get off. I don't want to because I am getting tired of always telling him to get off all the time. Is it normal what he is asking me to do?

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Comments ( 11 )
  • mountain-man82

    It is not normal. You shouldnt have to do all the work. Hell, for most guys, just the site of his girl naked and waiting for him should be enough to gey him off the xbox. Tell him how you feel and if he still does it then leave him and find someone that truly wants to spend time with you.

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  • ThisIsImpossible

    Is that the life of a gamer's girlfriend? Deprived of attention AND dick? Haha that's sad man

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    • annie20

      yes that is a life of a gamer's girlfriend. :(

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      • RoseIsabella

        So stop being a gamer's girlfriend ad dump him.

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  • Paradiddle

    Yeah, this isn't normal. Like everyone said, you shouldn't have to do all the work and getting naked is very much initiating, he just didn't do anything with that it seems while still acting like you aren't doing anything. I recommend dropping this person instantly without delay, I see no benefit here.

    That said, there are PLENTY like myself who play lots of games but wouldn't do things like this, this one in particular gives responsible gamers an inaccurate vibe, it isn't the norm. Its not being a gamer girlfriend that is the problem, its being with a problematic person, he and others would be that way without games too.

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  • RoseIsabella

    What you have here is a boy and not a man. He displays selfish, childish and codependent behavior by expecting you to drag him away from his video game. Stay with this little asshole and you'll start feeling more like his mother and less like his girlfriend. It's not your job to drag him away from his childish pursuits. His his job to be a man who responsible for himself and receptive to you.

    Why are you with this fool?

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  • thegypsysailor

    Where is it written in the relationship guide book that it is ALL your responsibility to get him hot and horny? No fucking way!
    If I were you, I'd put my foot down. I'd tell him he can have X number of hours on his stupid computer games, but that the rest of the time is to be spent living life and doing things with you. Going to the movies, for a walk, to the zoo, or even just cuddling in bed. If he doesn't care enough for you to give up his stupid computer games, then he doesn't deserve you and you should find a guy with his priorities straight.
    Priority number one? Human beings, not some computer game or site!

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  • poon_jabber

    maybe ur just too fat so the xbox was hotter than your naked fat ass

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    • annie20

      was a cheerleader in high school and I work out everyday to stay in shape so no I am not fat!

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  • charli.m

    http://youtu.be/PZ9TS7XLs2Q

    Seems it's not as rare as we may have thought :/

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  • Bobblahblah

    You could go and touch him and stuff. I don't suppose he'd mind.

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