Is it normal for me as an asexual to want to be in a relationship?

I need emotional support.
I probably just need a friend. IDK I'm confused.

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  • ThatOneGuyYouNeverWantToMeet

    Sexual? No.
    Romantic? Sure.
    Friendship? Yes.

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  • SkullsNRoses

    This is normal, not all asexual people are aromantic. Not all romances involve sex.

    I heard a quote once, it’s about being a virgin but also applies to being a celibate asexual, “You shouldn’t feel bad that you’re not having sex, most old people aren’t having sex either so really you’re just ahead of the pack”.

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  • dicksteele

    That depends, are you truly Asexual? As in never really wanting / needing sexual satisfaction or is it just for this relationship?

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  • olderdude-xx

    A real and good relaionship is first a friendship. I have a variety of them. Only a few ever became sexual, which usually is a different kind of relationship.

    Your feelings are totally normal.

    Go for it!

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  • ellnell

    Yes. You can be in a romantic relationship without having sex. If you and another person are in love with each other and you do all the relationship-things besides having sex then that's a relationship. That's up to you to define, not other people.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Depends.

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  • Schizotravestie

    Es tu sûr qu'être en couple c'est la même chose que être ami ?
    Demandons nous et apportons nous le même soutien à un ami qu'à un amoureux ?

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    • bigbudchonga

      Did you just surrender?

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      • Schizotravestie

        "Vous venez de vous rendre?"
        Je ne comprends pas la question.
        Je pense que Google traduction a mal traduit.

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    • ThatOneGuyYouNeverWantToMeet

      "Demandons nous et apportons nous le même soutien à un ami qu'à un amoureux ?"

      I would/do.

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  • caitlinhannah

    we all need a relationship of sorts, but you don't say what type you want?

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    • GuvnorsOtherWoman

      I don't need a relationship. Still single, never had a relationship, not currently in one and never will be. I have never even had one date. Just not interested.

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  • bigbudchonga

    It's more likely you were born in a messed up age and started identifying as asexual than you actually are asexual.

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