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I am attracted to older women and I don't know why and everytime my friends say they like younger teens and hey I do to but sometimes i'll say I like older women and they think i'm weird and screwed up in the head so ya just wondering if that is normal for a teenager?.
How comes no one tells him that if a cougar goes out with him she's a creep and a pedophile and he can't be possibly mature enough to understand the feelings he has and yadda yadda yadda. Everytime a young girl says she likes older men and an older man answers we get this stupid bullshit shoved down our throats. Double standards IMO.
No matter how wrong it seems, men will always be seen as the agressor. Seriously, if I would have been molested as a 14 year old boy, by a 30 something woman? I'd be bragging about it today. A 14 year old girl being seduced by a 30 something man? Tell me that's not creepy.
Right or wrong, that's a fact of humanity.
Even tho we're equal, men and women are different. Deal with it.
Older women tend to already know who they are and what they want, since they've had plenty of time to test the 'waters'.
Just try to stay away from women with kids, or at least women with kids that still live with them.
Once upon a time back when I was 20 I had a 35 year old. The physical aspect of the relationship was great; to this day I have yet to be with another woman that can match her intensity, but everything else was a freaking nightmare. Her kids never respected me even though I bought them things and paid bills for her house that I didn't live in. They even stole $800 in cash from me one time and laughed in front my face, knowing full well that there was no way that I could prove they did it.
I learned my lesson well and do not mess around with gals that have kids (who live with them) or who are far below my own financial status; my quality of life has been on an upward trend since.
Anyhow, if you are under 18 and do happen to come upon a lady who likes to thread dangerously and 'break the crib', keep in mind you'll mostly be a boy toy and she'll be the one calling the shots, so it is in your best interest not to become emotionally attached; just enjoy the ride.
Just be careful. When I was 18, I had an affair with a 36 year old married woman (yeah, I know, I WAS a male slut, but gimme a break, I WAS only 18) with 4 kids. One day, after about 4 months I came home to find her at my front door, bags, kids and pets.
She had left her husband and decided to move in with me without word one to me about it, first! NOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!