Is it normal for it to look like that?

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My boyfriend and i have been going out for almost a month and last saturday we hooked up really intimately and he tried to finger me but i wont let him. Its not that im prude im just really self conscious about my area down there because a long while back i was sexually assaulted (im not scared by it at all it doesn't make me uncomfortable with being intimate at all i don't care about it) but because of that my area doesn't look like it should. i guess you can say that. like the left labium minor is kind of stretched and looks weird thats what stops me from letting my boyfriend around there. is that normal to look like that ?

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  • dancingqueen
    13 years ago | pl

    every girl is very different down there. i was self conscious basically b/c i didn't look like the girls that i saw in porn so i looked up plastic surgery for that kind of thing and saw the before and after pictures...loads of different looks going on! asked my bf about it and he told me flat out i was being silly...showed him the pics online and he said that guys def cared more about hygiene and making you feel good than they do analyzing every detail down there. they are just happy to be there!

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  • ComeFlyWithMe
    13 years ago | pl

    He probably won't care. Besides everyone looks different down there and many women are naturally uneven at least a little bit just like many women have one breast that is larger than the other.

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  • theRealDeal
    13 years ago | pl

    He'll love it regardless, I promise!

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