I think it's normal to be bothered by it. He lied to make you feel more comfortable about having sex with him. I don't see that is having "good intentions" or to "protect you", I see that as lying to you to get you into bed.
As long as you know he regrets lying then that's a bit better at least, and I wouldn't leave him over it. The issue isn't that he wasn't a virgin (that doesn't matter) but that he lied about it to make you think he was someone he wasn't. I understand your feelings, but I don't know how to stop them :/
IIN For it to bother you that your boyfriend lied about being a virgin
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I think it's normal to be bothered by it. He lied to make you feel more comfortable about having sex with him. I don't see that is having "good intentions" or to "protect you", I see that as lying to you to get you into bed.
As long as you know he regrets lying then that's a bit better at least, and I wouldn't leave him over it. The issue isn't that he wasn't a virgin (that doesn't matter) but that he lied about it to make you think he was someone he wasn't. I understand your feelings, but I don't know how to stop them :/