Everyone handles difficult times differently, he obviously was torn up inside and needed to talk. It is also obvious the he did not feel he could talk to you about it. If you are going to stay together you need to forget about who he talked to and try and figure out how to work out your problems, I would worry more about that than what other people may now think. By your fixation on this rather than trying to solve your issues kind of shows why he could not talk to you. If these issues did not exist he wouldn't have anything to talk about would he.
I am not "fixated" on this at all. I know it's normal to have issues in a marriage and I'm dealing with those but not on here. You think I'm actually going to ask questions about BIG, IMPORTANT problems on a website where I have no idea who's answering, their backgrounds, etc. NO! I don't think THAT's NORMAL! I'm just wondering if it's most people go discussing relationship issues with others who are NOT involved in the relationship. Asking a simple question and being "fixated" are two totally different things, in my world anyway...
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Everyone handles difficult times differently, he obviously was torn up inside and needed to talk. It is also obvious the he did not feel he could talk to you about it. If you are going to stay together you need to forget about who he talked to and try and figure out how to work out your problems, I would worry more about that than what other people may now think. By your fixation on this rather than trying to solve your issues kind of shows why he could not talk to you. If these issues did not exist he wouldn't have anything to talk about would he.
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I am not "fixated" on this at all. I know it's normal to have issues in a marriage and I'm dealing with those but not on here. You think I'm actually going to ask questions about BIG, IMPORTANT problems on a website where I have no idea who's answering, their backgrounds, etc. NO! I don't think THAT's NORMAL! I'm just wondering if it's most people go discussing relationship issues with others who are NOT involved in the relationship. Asking a simple question and being "fixated" are two totally different things, in my world anyway...