That totally doesn't sound normal...
How is it that attractive women who love sex seem to get stuck with men that have no sex drive, but men that have high sex drives tend to get prudes?
I'm sure you've tried talking to him about this, I'd really like to know if he has a reason?
The last guy I dated had a much lower sex drive than me. But he was super nice, really intelligent, great conversationalist...
the guys who have wanted to bone me senseless every few hours were never appealing to be around. I guess there's some connection there, or something, like "less horny dudes spend more time developing into decent men".
Even if that is the case, I would expect a LOT more exceptions to that rule than I've found. I don't get it either.
I don't know, I've never really had that much experience with those kind of guys =/ Most of the guys I meet have a good sex drive and are fun to be around or good to intellectually connect with. My husband is the nerdy, intellectual, nice guy type and he's up for it anytime, anywhere.
Maybe it is because of their low sex drive that they have a higher threshold to respect women, they have the self-control because it was easy to achieve over a relatively non-issue. Either way, I don't know how she puts up with it. I couldn't live a happy life with a man that won't put out at LEAST once a day.
Is it normal for husband to only want sex occassionally???
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That totally doesn't sound normal...
How is it that attractive women who love sex seem to get stuck with men that have no sex drive, but men that have high sex drives tend to get prudes?
I'm sure you've tried talking to him about this, I'd really like to know if he has a reason?
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The last guy I dated had a much lower sex drive than me. But he was super nice, really intelligent, great conversationalist...
the guys who have wanted to bone me senseless every few hours were never appealing to be around. I guess there's some connection there, or something, like "less horny dudes spend more time developing into decent men".
Even if that is the case, I would expect a LOT more exceptions to that rule than I've found. I don't get it either.
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I don't know, I've never really had that much experience with those kind of guys =/ Most of the guys I meet have a good sex drive and are fun to be around or good to intellectually connect with. My husband is the nerdy, intellectual, nice guy type and he's up for it anytime, anywhere.
Maybe it is because of their low sex drive that they have a higher threshold to respect women, they have the self-control because it was easy to achieve over a relatively non-issue. Either way, I don't know how she puts up with it. I couldn't live a happy life with a man that won't put out at LEAST once a day.